Vanilla wife shared her fantasy

That's like saying a sexual assault victim got off so it's ok honestly.

 

Not really. He’s an adult that had time to think about the situation before giving consent and going ahead with it.
Yes, his wife felt disappointed at first, they even argued… but they’re natural emotions and the resulting actions in relationships.

It’s more like if a wife initially blankly refused to keep her man in chastity, the husband gets upset… that can end in an argument. It’s not frowned upon if later the wife decides to give it a try because that’s what her husband wanted.

 

This should of been the conversation summed up. I'd like you to try this for me, I'm sorry I'm not comfortable with that, ok i understand. I'd like to think we all agree nobody should do anything sexually they don't want to.

 

Not everyone is receptive to ideas on the first mention…. Sometimes people are reluctant and they change their mind

sometimes people do things they don’t think they want to, just to please their other half

sometimes people need a little push…

Sometimes people get asked to do things that they’re not exactly comfortable with, or it’s not who they think they are…

I get your point of view on this one because the act is quite extreme. Yet, we’re adults here. We often react quickly to situations and approach them calmer later on.
It’s not like his wife tied him up and invited a man into the bedroom.

 

None of those involve strange dick in my ass. You're beyond apples and oranges here. He got coerced guilted what have you into being raw dog sodomized. The fact people are ok with is honestly downright scary.

 

I doubt you could be guilted or coerced into that, that’s the point. He had to have wanted it to happen.

 

That's fine but say it then because it comes across very much the opposite.

 

The "whether you wanted to or not".
This is a really good video about consent.

 

Actually a throughly enjoyable video. Didn’t show what happens if someone says they don’t want tea, but then decide they do… the debate rages on

 

It's pretty clear if someone doesn't want tea don't pout, be aloof, distant or upset they don't want tea in order to get them to drink tea. So really no debate needed. He wanted "tea" and won't admit it which I find likely. Or he didn't want tea and was coerced into drinking tea which per the video is a no no.

 

By you giving in to something you didn't want to do to please her. If you're ok with it fine but her actions were wrong.