Chastity regulation

I think you forgot the backstory.

 

I laughed.

 

The backstory is important.

 

That's helpful.

Low effort is different than pressure free.

 

I’m out at her whim (fortunately for me that tends to average a couple times a week) and then I’m immediately back in. Pretty simple system.

 

We use dice to decide a general lock up time. Usually I roll three dice and total is my days without release. Takes pressure off her and I decide my own fate in a way. There's exceptions though. For example every five foot rubs gets me an ask to get out of cage. Nothing is guaranteed but she'll usually let me out and let me take care of myself worst case.

 

I have 8 foot rubs banked up lol. I can cash them in for other stuff too like a footrub for a paddling while she teases my cage shit like that. To her a foot rub is a solid two hours or three episodes of whatever show we're currently binge watching. If I cashed them in every week to get off she'd probably say no way more often. Yeah foot rubs are basically currency to her though lol

 

I asked both Chat GP 3.5 an 4 on your behalf and it says your request is not appropriate. Sorry!

 

What does she want?

 

Must it be a game? I know, it may get boring if you don't play. It sounds to me like you're using it as a kink. So you're real question, is "how do you keep it kinky?"

 

You might forget about her opinion. I presume it’s your fantasy so you want to be locked. Why you don’t let your wife to decide? She holds the key after all.

 

I was trying to figure out same question. After all ideas i had I found solution. I just try to stay locked for longest period I can. I beg V3r0nika to keep me locked for this specific time. (she loves when I beg her) However even after this period it’s her decision. I’m doing this for her. That’s why she should decide. If she unlocks me it’s only for edge play or ruined orgasm mostly. (Hygiene ofc.) I’m not unlocked otherwise. I barely remember feeling of not being locked and it feels strange. I couldn’t be unlocked for week or so. I feel naked without my cage. She has same feelings without her key necklace
So just let her decide and try your best in short answer

 

Of course the natural answer is you will strive to be under stricter and stricter control. Starts out easy and bar keep being risen. You both grow from the experience.
Its like entering a challenge to run last in a mans world but winning in the real world.

 

I gave the keys to my Queen and said use them lovingly when you want. She gave me a week of piv last January on holiday. I hope for a repeat this January. It will mark a year. At times I can cum in the belt. My point in all this is she has the keys.

 

1. She's in charge, she gets all the sex she wants, how she wants it.
2. If tantalizing you and a bit of the gambler's rush is appealing, I like the idea of dice games.

For example, there is the Good Dice/Bad Dice game. Two sets of dice are rolled (can be two rolls or different colors, or an onile simulator). The good dice determine the time until relief is offered, the bad dice determine the duration of the session. Or maybe that's backwards, depends on your viewpoint.

For example, roll 3d6: Good dice 11, bad dice 5, five (time unit) tease, and locked up. Good dice 9, bad dice 12, relief is offered after nine (time unit). The teasing lasts the longer duration of the two, for post-orgasm torment.

The difference between the rolls is the lockup duration. In the first example, there will be a lockup for six (time units).

The more dice, the higher the probability of a tie (which means no relief), and shorter lockups (tie equals next day, or any other arbitrary value), but the two dice sets to not have to be equal in number. If she is less than impressed with your behavior, she can add bad dice...

She can also keep whether a relief is offered to herself, leaving you in the dark as to whether permission is granted, causing you to struggle to stop an imminent orgasm and delay asking permission to ejaculate.

Fiddle with the time increments to taste, the first can be minutes or multiples thereof, the lockups can be days, weeks, or whatever fraction/multiple works.

In general, work out guidelines she finds most appealing.

 

Horny male brains love to overcomplicate things.

Stay caged, she gets what she wants.

 

Have her give the key to a friend who decides