Bad situation, any ideas?

Well, I think admitting you were in cage is far better than her thinking you were aroused by a nine year old. You or your wife should call her and tell her you wear a chastity device for you and your wife’s pleasure and apologize that her daughter detected it. You don’t need to explain any more reasons for wearing it. But I am of the opinion you definitely don’t want her thinking you are a pedophile.

 

I would have to agree with Barbcd on that one!

 

Yeah thats tough. I'd get ahead of it before the worst is cemented in their heads. Could you say it was your phone, pack of cigarettes or something? If not I'd just own up you and her practice chasity. Better then the alternative

 

To be honest, I would just say i had tools/parts in my pockets. Seeing you were there to fix something, that could be totally possible. Also the reason you thought it was not a big deal was because it was something so innocent. Easy explanation.

 

Although very difficult I think honesty is the best policy here, it wins every time and then your not looking over your shoulder with nasty rumours permeating.

 

You had keys in your pocket and you left in embarrassment over the misinterpretation. Full stop.

 

Thats a winner in my books, wow your quick. And sensible.

 

... then the vicar walked in and my trousers fell down, i fell over and the dog mounted me.

 

You’re worried about TSA being non-consensually exposed to chastity kink, yet telling the little girls mom he practices chastity in a metal cage and allowed her daughter into his lap is okay with you? I hope he goes with keys in his pocket.

 

I clearly give an alternative and said if that doesn't work. Big difference in going thru x rays and life happens. Nice mental gymnastics however

 

I’m sorry you are either being disingenuous or being obtuse. As many explained to you their really isn’t issue with TSA and chastity most importantly it’s not going to put you in legal jeopardy. However, if he confesses his kink to a parent who ran off with her child because she believed he had an erection, she’s unlikely to react positively. If she calls the police snd tells them he has exposed her child to his kink he could very likely be arrested. Even though his “exposure” was inadvertent, your advice (and others), to fess up, is terrible advice!

 

I’ve actually come over to your way of thinking, I think the “I had a small flashlight in my pocket and I was so shaken by your daughters reaction I behaved poorly” is a much better path.

wow, look at that. Someone on the internet reading other opinions and changing their own! LOL

 

How exactly is a phone or cigarettes any different advice then keys? It's clear many who want a cheap thrill off unsuspecting TSA are clearly upset not everyone agrees with their bad judgment. Lose sleep over it, I won't

 

Yes. You are fucked. Doesn’t matter what excuse you come up with now, as it’s well after the event it will only come across as an excuse. She’d probably believe that your wife is protecting you… that’s doesn’t change whether it’s keys, phone, tools.. she’ll be perceived as a naive housewife who doesn’t want to lose her husband.

I don’t know the law in the US. Whether, you’d be arrested for “exposure”, but to me the best option is for your wife to have a frank heart-to-heart with this other woman. Explain from her side what’s going on and explain you left through awkwardness.

Otherwise, time to leave town before the rumours spread

 

If you aren't pulling your junk out in public, shoeing everybody what's going on between your legs..who cares if someone knows you have a cock cage on? Genuinely curious..you want to wear one, it's "kinky", it's "exciting in publuc because noone knows"..why not just own it and tell people when it happens? I don't care if someone knows I have a cage on, honestly. But that may come with age, and not caring about what people think.

 

Ask to speak with her with your wife.

Explain everything to her, the cage, the key the whole nine yards. Be truthful and up front. Talk about why you do it, how it proves that you will stay faithful, how only your Wife has the key.

You are in a bit of a pickle.

The sooner it is resolved, the better for everyone.


Iso.

 

Sounds awful, it's one of the many dangers of wearing a sex toy when there others who may not understand it.

I have no advice to give.

 

@squier i think that you shud have sayed something when you was there in the Ladys house as well. it happen to me once but Mistress told the Lady what it was and She just laugh.

 

Just say she was sitting on your keys.

 

And you had to leave quickly because she’d pressed them into your chastity cage and become stuck…

 

...and that turned you on, rather than the 9yr old girl wriggling around on your dick.

 

I think the truth has the best possible outcome. I think the mother will sence excuses and recognize the truth. Tell the truth, I think this is the only option you have to bend the situation into the right direction.

Only with the truth all 4 of you have the ability to come out stronger.

Good luck.

 

Your membership on this forum proofs that a chastity life is something you follow allready for a very long time.