Do you enjoy a ruined orgasm?

We had a long play session last night with lots of relentless teasing and edging. To the point where I ended up getting a ruined orgasm (not intentionally). Perfectly frustrating, I asked her to stop well in advance of having an orgasm, and after a few seconds the ejaculation dribbled out. Leaving me incredibly horny and my body craving relief. Instead she kept teasing and edging me a few more times, not letting me have an orgasm. I was quite literally begging for the orgasm. It was maddening.

But it left me in a wonderful spot. The extra post-ruin play calmed me down, almost like the good relief of pressure after an orgasm, but without drop. While that felt great, I told my wife I bet I wake up at 3AM craving orgasm. And sure enough, at 3AM I was crazy horny again, and have been ever since. No drop, I'm in a great loving, attentive space and insanely craving orgasm!

 

My wife stopped giving me ruining orgasms ,because even though I didn't have an Ohh , it took lil bit the horniness out of me.
Now she's using electrosex on my cock.
I must tell her when to turn off the electricity. Then it just leaks out of me without feeling nice. Try it.
One electrode needs to be put on the head of the penis
and the other electrode on the balls or buttocks(Sitting muscle.).Written via translator.

 

I don't enjoy any orgasm now....
At first, when my Wife (KH) allowed me to cum, we both noticed the "Drop".
My Wife, then figured out how close she could get me to the point of no return. When I was allow to get this close, she would have me masturbate for her and I would have to stop about 10 seconds before I came. Many times, my penis would just twitch several times and very little came out...Mostly pre cum. And then she left me to go soft.
Now that I haven't had a orgasm in over 12 months or any ruined ones, I really don't want to have a orgasm and break my streak. My Wife enjoys teasing me and she really loves the idea of keeping me caged. At first, chastity was my kink, now it has turned out to be hers. She wouldn't have it any other way and I'm in it for the long haul now. No idea when I will cum again, I guess when my Wife wants it to happen, it will happen.

 

Chastity evolves and so do the rewards you get.
In a state of perpetual desire any reward is welcome.
Ruined orgasms become the most exquisite pleasure if they become the only way to have a release.
In our case penile stimulation is history and only anal induced releases are practiced !

 

When she ruins my orgasm, she makes sure when she stops rubbing, she doesn't go back to milk the last drop. She knows it's physically more frustrating to leave some residual ejaculate in the urethra. It makes the ejaculation (I don't call them orgasms. I think orgasms are something different) less enjoyable... and often in our crowd, less is more.

 

I love any contact my KH has with my cock - whether I'm locked or unlocked. Tease, edge, ruin, full - I'll take them all!

We're still getting used to chastity and denial play and at the moment, I don't think she's that keen on ruined orgasms, I think she likes me to have a regular orgasm so she gets some peace for a few days

However, a few weeks ago when we were out for a walk in the morning, she said "I'm going to ruin you tonight!" and I leaked in my cage almost immediately.

She also is happy to ask me to ruin myself on her feet as she orgasms with her wand, reminding me I will "have to lick ALL your sperm"*

*a line from a pegging porn film that got me into the whole 'cum on feet and eat it' kink - she likes to use the phase as she knows it drives me wild when she says it.

 

Her favorite when I beg for release.

Stroke and tease
Edge, edge, edge and edge more
Ruin
Ejaculate
Post Orgasm Torture
My begging her to stop POT
My agreeing to be humiliated by her later
Locked back in Chastity
Putting on crotchless panties she picks for me

 

In some ways I like them.

They are really hot before they happen. It's her knowingly doing it that gets me going. She knows it won't satisfy very much, and I will be kept in a certain headspace. I can see her watching my body movements and pausing here and there as she builds it up. I know I'm about to be very frustrated. It really makes me feel controlled by her. After she's ruined it and enough time passes, I start to appreciate how I'm still so into her.

She hasn't yet nailed a perfectly ruined orgasm, so I do feel some orgasmic pleasure from them. However, it's a let down when it is happening compared to the real thing. Since I'm going to be getting mainly ruined orgasms for a while if she sticks to plan, I can only imagine that I'll start to more greatly dislike the moment when the ruin is actually happening.

So yeah, before and after is pretty amazing, but the actual ruining is not so much fun. .

 

Men can ejaculate without an orgasm. It can give a little relief, without the pleasurable orgasm. And without the drop. Depending on timing, the ejaculation can be strong and just the release can be considered pleasurable. The dribble offers no pleasure at all. And for me means a true ruin.
A butt plug, if big enough, will not allow the muscle contraction to produce the somewhat pleasurable spurt. Very unsatisfying. But if that's what the keyholder is shooting for, it's very effective.

 

And what if a sub had to thank his Mistress for a ruined orgasm like he had been rewarded. And ask to pleasure her to orgasm as his appreciation ?

 

I always and sincerely thank my wife when she denies me. I also enjoy when she doesn't

 

I think a person, emotional and physical perception could greatly vary, we are all different. It’s all the same ballpark and we all want to hit. Home runs each time, since we are not in control, we just try to score runs each one has its own rewards. That’s what makes it so exciting, like this morning, I felt her reach out and give me a little push. It’s like I wait for that every morning but this time it was early and she said she could not sleep. I had a rush and then another I really didn’t want to lose this feeling , she was into teasing me cuddling, or offered her back to cuddle, do you want me to unlock you she says, uh yes, but we cuddle again, orgasms I feel, she wants to watch the sunrise and who knows what the rest of the morning will bring.

 

Ruined to me is stopping before anything comes out. I feel I get the most pleasure just before I cum and keeping me on the edge before cumming is most enjoyable.
I grew up thinking that I should never cum inside so I always did the pull out when close and no stimulation after pulling out. Most of the time some would leak out after I pulled out but I would never put it back in once I pulled out. I think this process of never getting a real orgasm caused me to be premature so sex would never last more than 60 seconds so I learned at a young age to give oral and clean up my little mess and make my partner orgasm. There wasn't many second dates.
Being in chastity is very pleasurable so there is no disappointment for my lack of performance and she gets to have other men that can give her when she needs.

 

I don't know when we will ever figure out how to do it as perfectly as you describe. Maybe it's because there isn't as much of a wait in between for us.

 

We're only in our first month of our chastity journey, but so far I've enjoyed the ruins.
My wife (KH) realised that coming down from my 10x weekly wank habit would be tough, so I've had a ruin on each weekend of Locktober.
Week 1 was her first attempt at an uncaged ruin and she timed it to perfection. We couldn't believe how much spillage I produced.
Week 2 was a caged ruin, again done to perfection with her wand.
Week 3 was another caged ruin, but she was slightly disappointed that I actually managed a splurt rather than a spill.

No idea how she's managed to master the art after such a short period of time!

 

During our 14 years of chastity play we have done ruined orgasms. They do nothing for me but my wife used to like to make me ejaculate as proof of my sexual attraction to her. However we leaned over the years that she gets so into her own pleasure that she forgets to stop pumping my penis and makes me oragsm fully or ignores my warnings of impeding orgasm. That ruins her plans for denying me for specific time periods so we stopped that. She now keeps me locked during sex and just does ball busting and nipple torture most of the time.

All ruined orgasms did was make a mess. It was exciting and disappointing at the same time for me as you build up to an orgasm and then stimulation stops and I never even felt if I ejaculated or not and had to feel around or ask my wife if I did. I suggest you try them as they can be fun but it is very easy to go too far. That is only important if you have a time period between orgasms. If not, then go for it and if she goes too far, lucky you, I know that after 14 years I rather not orgasm at all than orgasm and have to start all over again. For males, we hae 10 days of hormones building up after we orgasms to urge us on to have more orgasms as nature's way of passing on our genes to as many people as possible. So here is an initial ten days of having to put up with that urge to orgasm intensifying before it even outs and accidently full orgams are not my favorite thing for this reason.

 

Yeah, it's no competition; I agree. Still, it's something to see what happens with other couples and always wonder what that would be like. I'm glad for you guys.

 

a ruined and interrupted orgasm. These concepts are different, right?

 

And there is the delayed ruin

 

I'm grateful for anything i'm allowed, whether it be pleasure or pain

 

What's an orgasm?

 

This. So well put! Sal

 

I don’t “enjoy” them but I “need” the intimacy they bring.