Removing the safety net

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    Hi all
    wanted to share with you all now i am being locked :lock:with out a safety net i have always had in place

    let me explain.
    Been locked for over the past 2 years by my amazing Mistress Katie G (I will refer as MK as i have been given permission to address Her this way ).
    Most of you may know we do not live together and we are quite a distance apart ,but we make it work for us and its amazing being her property .

    So back to the safety net
    We use a lock box from igloohome (see pic attached )and i set it up with my email add and gave MK the login details and she changed the password so i could not access the box.
    When MK allows me to be unlocked she will send a code and i get access to the key
    When i am instructed to put the cage back on i have to video me placing the key back in the box and close the lid
    All good you would all think ,but for on small detail
    The box is still registered to my email add and i can email igloohome and can re set the password and gain access
    Of course i would never do that as MK would be hurt and disappointed in me and i would never want that:( .
    So i got thinking i have always had this safety net and could gain access if i really wanted to and i wanted to change this as i wanted MK to have as much power and control over me as possible as i trust her with my life and worship the ground she walks on.
    I mentioned to MK that we should change the box to be registered in her email add then i could never gain access ,Mk pretended that she was not that bothered so she let me think lol
    So i contacted igloohome on how i could do this and there customer care is first class i emailed with my phone number and they called me with half an hour and explained wot i had to do to change the email add.
    So i did it and told MK she logged in and re stet the password....GULP ....YIKES .. i have given my safety net away now and wowwww
    The feeling once i put the key in the box:lock: was un real i would call it different from night to day now i don't have the safety net and it feels so much more intense and more exciting and scary lol.
    Its strange as i would never over ride the box but now i cant its changed the feeling of being caged and locked its hard to explain that now it has my heart :love:pounding out of my chest knowing MK has total control of me ,her property and she can get me doing anything she wishes as she knows i will become so desperate and weak and helpless now she knows i cannot gain access to the box or the key .

    As soon as i put the key in the box Mk messaged me and i realized she has sucked me into doing this without me even knowing this is wot she really wanted when she pretended she was not to bothered when i mentioned it in the first place to her
    MK always does this just sucks me in every time and i fall for it hook line and sinker lol
    And i adore every thing MK does for me :love:

    Only been locked a few days without the safety net i always had and its driving me crazy and cannot think of anything else now ,and i love the feeling of being so helpless to such a sexy gorgeous beautiful kinky owner my amazing MK who i will love:love: and worship until the day i die.
     

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    I agree, it is far more intense for you and I feel the intensity too. I feel the control I have over you, I did before the safety net was ripped from under your feet , but now there is no escape now. If you want to be unlocked you have no choice but to please me.... Please me enough to want to unlock you. Mk xx
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    S ooo undos like my wife, she hated the idea of an emergency key, didn’t like that I had the power to just take it off
     
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    I understand what you mean...we used to have that safety net with a spare key hidden after a year or or so without ever needing it she took the key and it is more intense the first time you get locked and there is no key
    its a whole different dynamic but it works been over 2 years now since then and still have not needed the key
     
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    Yes MK course i will please you and do all that you ask of me my amazing MK :):):)

    We seem to keep pushing the boundaries as we go long on this amazing journey together.
    I just wonder what's coming next :)
     
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    Good luck to you both
     
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    Not having access to a key definitely increases the intensity.

    Good luck.
     
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    Congratulations! Enjoy it!
     
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    Congratulations on taking this next step!
     
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    I am jealous! You are a lucky man.
     
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    The furst time you're locked without access to your key is definitely high anxiety! What have I done?

    But the anxiety fades pretty quickly and then it becomes part of your normal life. You think about how to remove it in the event of a mild emergency so that you have a back up plan.

    But the low level arousal is there most if the time. And you don't ever forget you're wearing it. You have a constant reminder of your partner and the fate you've signed yourself up for.
     
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    MK has informed me what the next step is now she has instructed me to get a PA done asap
     
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    Congratulations @youngy63 on your next, more secure, step forward. I've enjoyed hearing your, as well as MK's side, of your journey, quite the partnership
     
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    I love this concept so much that I'm tempted to buy one of these! Tell me, do you need a WiFi patch or does it just work on Bluetooth?
     
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    Hi
    It works with both wifi and bluetooth
    any more info required just DM ok
     
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    I find your level of trust amazing. I could never give that level of control away, especially to a remote person. Hope it is everything you wanted in your journey.
     
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    Hi mcfreely
    Its more than i ever dreamed off and more
    we are not just on line we meet when ever we can
    I trust MK with my life
     
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    Taking way your safety net changes the whole dynamic fro just physical control to mental dominance! It's a whole different level, trust me.
     
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