Just had another anniversary with my Goddess wife (25+ years of marriage) which caused me to reflect back on our marriage. It was about 5 years into our marriage that we started experimenting with her being in charge and domination me. A few years later we agreed to a formal FLR. As I reflected on our relationship it was clear to me that the dynamics of our relationship and who each of us were, completely changed over the years as a result of our FLR. I went from an equal partner in the relationship to being under her thumb, willingly yielding to her authority and decisions, and taking orders from her. What blows my mind is how I've been molded by her domination to serve in a way that pleases her and that even the way I think has permanently changed. For example, whenever I want to do something with my friends or something that is out of our normal routine, my natural instinct is to ask her for permission. If she tells me something to do, I comply immediately without question. During sex, my frame of mind is always focused on giving her pleasure and I never expect an orgasm for myself. This is just the way I think now. It is fascinated how FLR has changed who I am and that it is not just fantasy. Her authority over me is real. My wife has changed too. She was never very dominant but now her dominance flows naturally. She is a much more confident person in every day life and sure of herself. She used to be reserved during sex but now she lets her inhibitions go and is often aggressive and demanding. I love it all. It is a dream come true for me. FLR is an amazing dynamic and life changing. I would not even know how to go back to a traditional relationship now.
That´s great! Love to see it. Very silimar to our relationship as well (although I don´t always respond "immediately", but she knows it will get done.) Here´s what I liked most about your post, because it mirrors the awesome and wonderful change my wife made, too. It´s a wonderful life (most of the time...) Congrats!
I could have written that same exact thing. It's just so amazingly wonderful. Not easy. Not without pain. But wonderful.
I agree with you 100%. I didn't think I was in a FLR. But after reading your post, it seems I am. We never planned it this way, it just fell into place. We both have talked about our relationship and our only regret is that we didn't start sooner in our marriage. My Wife (KH) love the way things are now...As do I...
It fantastic to hear that so many others are enjoying the lifestyle. I agree it is not always easy. The first several years were especially tough, until we found our groove.
It's really like your focus when servicing your lovely wife,. "always giving her pleasure". Very sexy.