Where is the romance and passion? So much "PIV", so little "making love". What has happened to the passion and romance. My GF and I make love. If I told her it was PIV she would spit her coffee out. Do people say to their wife/gf/partner "Hey honey, I really love doing PIV with you?" C'mon guys, WTF?
LOL. I like this one because I never heard or used the term PIV before I was on this site. I had to look it up. Now, I use it frequently. I think that PIV makes since in connection with these chastity discussions because chastity promotes the idea that sex and intimacy can be more than just intercourse. PIV is as short to type out as sex but sex in connection with chastity isn't necessarily intercourse so you have to be more specific. That's my take anyway. If I used the term PIV with my wife, she would have no clue what I was talking about.
So true - you can make love in so many ways that don’t involve PIV that it would be confusing to talk about in a forum like this where it matters
Yeah, "PIV" is just convenient when talking about sexual activity (like here in the forum), not in a sexy situation! There are so many ways to pleasure (or tease) each other, it's helpful to have a quick way to refer to one of the ways that people here most fixate on!
Yep, I think it’s just shorthand to describe the physical act, which can be a big deal if you’ve been locked up for a while! But all of us guys here have learnt over time, there’s lots of ways to have sex and “make love” that don’t involve penises in any way!
LOL, I crave PIV personally because its about the only time I get an O, but I am with above PIV does not equal making love. My wife and I make love much more these days but it seldom is PIV.
Okay, in our situation, Mrs Edge has decided that I will be locked and denied permanently. I wear a strapon harness with a Vixskin Ranger X because she prefers intercourse. While online I refer to this as "Foxing," to us, this is "making love" or "having sex." I do sometimes explain that my wife likes PIV because on my phone it's easier to type than "intercourse".
https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/humiliation-wtf.51604/#post-624455 Maybe next time.
For us, PIV is something which Miss Amanda may order from time to time, but it is certainly not full sex / lovemaking. It is entirely under her control and on her terms, and I am not allowed to finish inside her ever.
I'm in an interesting spot in my life in which I've never experienced PIV due to my self insecurities/anxiety/etc.... For the longest time, this insecurity of being a virgin really affected my overall health/well being causing depression but as I started to embrace my kink side I've actually started to become vindicated of being pussyfree lol. Since joining kink in 2021, I have had sex 5 times but all locked up and analy pegged. Within the last year, the idea of being pussyfree for the rest of my life has started to really grow in me... Rn I foresee myself being pussyfree and will continue to explore the mental changes/effects this has on me.
I personally don’t like to use the term PiV either, although I understand why others do. It just seems too unemotional to me which in retrospect is funny considering I will use intercourse on here which is as clinical as it gets. When it comes up in conversation with the wife we refer to it as making love, having sex or fucking depending on the intensity.
I use the term PIV because for us it is exactly that. I use his penis as a dildo. He is only allowed to move if I say so. I usually use my wand at the same time. He is never allowed to finish inside me and has to withdraw immediately I tell him to.
Lol!! Had PIV last night - trouble is, I was the one wearing the hollow strapon….. I STILL had to wear my cage though…. been a while since the last time and we established that this 8.5” strapon is just too big…. 6.2” on the way and hopefully delivered tomorrow…. Am hoping she really really enjoys this one…. Would love her to become totally addicted as just laying on top of her and holding her is such a joyful experience - if she ain’t gonna let ME in her, I would love her to really enjoy me using a faux!! How wonderful to hear her telling me there really is NO longer a need to let me out ever again!!
I had never used the term or heard of it before CM. It does help to distinguish between forms of intercourse.
"PIV" is a useful shorthand in discussions here, but I've never used that phrase with hubby. In fact, I don't think we actually have a term that means specifically PIV. I talk about making love quite often, but that's become a catch-all for pretty much any sexual activity done in a tender manner. Once in a while I'll mention "fucking", which definitely implies penetration, but could mean either pegging or PIV.