Orgasm denial, how long really?

I voted monthly... but the average chaste duration is creeping up. We're getting to every two months.

 

A couple years ago she said 'we're never going back you know'.

 

She said it gets her off when I cum

 

Before: Every day. Plus jacking off.

After: From 2 days to 2 weeks, or more, or less, or whenever she wants to.

 

I have kept my sub-hubby locked 24/7 for almost 3 years now, no erections or orgasms permitted.
I worked him gradually into permanent chastity. First one month denied, then 3 months, 6 months, a full year, etc.

 

Congratulations !!
That is a determined woman who knows what she wants and gets it without remorse or compassion.
The times are always defined by the KH and only she knows how long the period will be.

 

I average about once every 2-3 months. But that is an average that doesn’t take in to account good stretches followed by long stretches.

For example, once I was going on almost 6 months. She unlocked me, I came, locked back up, let out to cum in a week, locked back up and went another 5 months. Technically that was 4 orgasms that year, but due to the time between them, it certainly didn’t feel like I had that many.

 

oh my Ms_Brooke, that's how long i've been locked by my relative... i can relate to how very long that is, and the urges that developed over that time!

 

When My Wife and I started MC, she allowed me to have an orgasm 4-6 times a month. Then it was down to 1-2 times a month. Now almost five years in, my Wife (KH) has me down to zero so far, since May of last year. She has told me now that it might be longer, depending on how she feels. She has really no need to have me cum anymore. I have zero releases, only type of release is from pre-cum leaking. When we first met, We would have 1-2 orgasms a day. PIV sex, and oral every day for years.

 

8 to 12 weeks , but this lockup I have to go 16 weeks.

 

Well it depends. I dont jerk anymore. I even dont get it hard to jerk off anymore. Porn doesnt attract me anymore. Cams no attraction.

My whole libido is on my wife and the phantasy with other women and of course men, who could get involved by her into our relationship. I dont say play because it isnt a play anymore. The chastity is real evdn i am not locked often.

Shebmakes herself cum as often as she wants to use me. And in my case it depends on her mood.

Sometimes it is more than a week, sometimes more than a month, and sometimes between one and three months.
I dont need it really much to cum.
If she lets me cum which isnt a real orgasm then she teases me to the edge and forces the cum out of me with the wand.
Which isnt an orgasm at all, but a relief after t and d.

The last really BIG orgasm was two years ago on the 10 of march 21. The others since were minor.

 

I've mentioned that for the past five years I have been "permanently" locked (travel & medical excepted). No unlocking for sex play.

However, my wife finds it hot that she can make me aroused enough to have an orgasm in my cage. She does this randomly, when she's in the mood. We typically go from one to three months in between.

It used to feel ruined, but after all this time my brain has been rewired so that it does feel pretty good.

 

there's a lot of subjective language here; "best", "record", "impressive".

I've generally been really pleased by how broad a church chastity is, and how little comparison / competition there feels to be & very little judgement of whether someone is 'doing it properly' or not.

Longer may be better for some (and / or their KH) and good luck to them, but by no means all.

 

Cage life started in Locktober of 2022 for us. Once I was caged we went about 5 months before I was given a caged orgasm. Dom-Miss-K has not set time frames, it really is just up to Her mood. There are times she only needs to finish and there are times she wants PIV. Completely up to Her. This month She has given me 2, so the next one could be way down the road or just around the corner. The excitement is not knowing.

 

Like Tom Allen here, I’ve been locked permanently for over 5 years now. The first 3, I did get out occasionally for cum training and rare PIV intercourse.
In the last 2 plus years, I have not be allowed or out for any masturbation or real orgasms.
The first year of that kind of denial was hell at times. But no matter how much I begged or pleaded, my Goddess would not give in to it.
Now over 2 years later, I hardly remember what a real orgasm feels like. For me just getting to have a anal prostrate milking is the new pleasure I feel now.
I don’t experience the sub drop, and I remain submissive and attentive to my Goddess. She really likes this, and has told me orgasms for me are going to be indefinitely denied for me. She loves the place where at now and doesn’t want to go back to weeks of me getting back to that.
I get great satisfaction from giving her orgasms orally, and I feel that myself when she is in the throws of ecstasy.
So I do think permanent orgasm denial is possible, because I’m living it. Really I don’t think I ever need one again. It’s like quitting drinking, smoking, or drugs. You’ll always get that urge, but it will pass if you can push through it.
My two cents.

 

I am currently at 153 days since my last orgasm; with my all time longest period was 183 days. So far, Di has not given me any indication of when, or if, one is forthcoming...

 

First and foremost, this is what my Goddess/Wife’s goals were when we decided permanent chastity was best for us.
I wasn’t forced into it, but I knew also this was best for me to become a better submissive/slave husband to her. We communicated about this for over a year, and when decided. There would never be any going back. I knew full well her intentions and goals, and had some real hard thoughts about what she wanted.
But in the end, I wanted to become so much a better sub/slave husband to her. I would give up my own selfish ( seconds of pleasure) to please the woman I love so much.
It’s hard to fathom at times, but letting her control me this way has taken so much pressure off our relationship.
I’m proud to be permanently locked for her, and orgasm denied. Even our femdom friends are impressed with how well I’ve become accustomed to denial.
When we play with others, I’m the only one not getting any relief.
But in my mind I am.
Life is about our relationships with our partners, and being together and happy. I truly am.

 

About every 10 days but my partner recently told me it will be 4 weeks until I have my next orgasm. That does not necessarily mean I wont be let out, but it might, thats up to her.

Why do I want her to do it, well mainly to impress her I guess if I am honest. Its kind of like I want to prove to her that her orgasms are more important to me than mine.

Most of her previous partners have been selfish when it comes to sex, and indeed I have been in my past as well. We all strive to become better as we get older, well one hopes anyway. I want to be the best partner she has ever had in all aspects not just sex, but chastity and orgasm denial is pretty important to us both. I cant see us taking another break from it any more.

The only time I really struggle is when she is upset with me....Other than that I dont mind how long she keeps me locked up as long as its making her happy.