What's your lockup routine?

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    I know a few guys here lock up every once in a while or lock up to a specific goal, so I'm curious, what's your routine?

    Mine is basically locked 24/7 but let out once a week for a minute in the shower to wash and clean myself thoroughly and wash and rinse the cage thoroughly. Generally, I'm allowed a few orgasms a year but that's about it (at least that's what my KH and I are going for.)

    I'm just curious what it looks like all around the mansion :)
     
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    For me, I'm locked 24/7 but let out for deep cleaning once every 3 days. Im only really allowed to be unlocked either for cleaning under supervision or when my KH wants to use me. Very rarely am I out of my device for longer than 1 hour. It took us a long time to get to 24/7 but we found out thats what works for our dynamic.
     
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    Locked 24/7 and let out every 2 weeks for cleaning. I can clean pretty easily without unlocking.
     
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    There's no routine. Cage goes on. The end. There's no weekly thing, no daily thing. No monthly thing. Why would there be?

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    Locked until she decides otherwise, which at the moment is rougly weekly but likely to increase as she gets more rabidly horny haha.
     
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    I'm locked 24-7, only let out for showering and when she wants to play
     
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    How often does she like to play?
     
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    I'm locked 24/7...That being said, if my Wife (KH) wants to play with me, she will let me go without my cage until she has had her fun. She will also allow me to uncage so I can shave and clean. That might be 15-20 minutes every 3-5 days. During this time I'm not allowed to get hard or play with myself...Shave & clean and then locked back up. Since May 2022 I have been orgasm free and my Wife's goal is a full year (At least). My Wife (KH) does enjoy teasing me, so I do get a lot of attention. So I can't complain. Once a mouth, she likes to tie me up on our bed, take my cage off and lets me get hard for awhile. She will tease me, get me hard, then leave the room and let me go soft, then repeats this several times. She still enjoys to seeing me get hard. See calls it my penis exercises. I still enjoy getting hard, even for a short time and knowing I'm not going to get to cum...
     
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    24/7 with brief hygiene every 5-7 days.

    Sometimes Mistress and/or my KH will tease a "target" time or date I may be allowed out for a short while to experience pre-cage life ,,,but only briefly. Otherwise no matter the activity/task/chore/day routine/travels/etc...locked tight in my NUB.
     
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    Locked 24/7 and don't need to be unlocked to clean as I can clean in the cage. Unlocked whenever she feels like it. Sometimes play time doesn't result in me being unlocked, sometimes it does, and when it does it's usually for about 30 minutes. There is no schedule, looking back my unlocks were 2/19, 1/28, 1/7, 1/2, 12/27, 12/11, so maybe it averages to once every 3 weeks or so. As for full orgasms, I've had 1 in the last 6 months.
     
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    It used to be About 4 time a week but she's working a lot of hours lately so I'm only getting out on the weekends 2xs
     
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    I'm locked 24/7 apart from supervised shower every 7 to 10 days
    Play wise there is no routine and even then I'm not always unlocked when we play or allowed to cum
     
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    I'm usually locked 24x7. I'm out for a shave about every 10-14 days. We use a dice game to determine my next "play date" for a full orgasm, which she can override if she wishes. I averaged about 1 per month last year. No milking and no ruined O's. We are approaching our 1 year anniversary in this journey of renewed intimacy and chastity and are celebrating with a vacation. She wants me uncaged while away. Hopefully that doesn't mess with the magic we've found.
     
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    That's interesting! It's like celebrating your masculinity -- make sure you dont slip into self-pleasure. The real beauty of this will be the relocking at the end -- make it a solemn ceremony celebrating your commitment to her.
     
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    Thank you for your words of wisdom. I came so close to self pleasuring this past weekend after not locking up immediately after sex Saturday night. My wife woke up in the nick of time. I think I may need to take precautions at night while we are away.
     
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    Goddess and i do not live this lifestyle 24/7 so i am not locked 24/7. Typically i am locked 2-3 weeks per month but that can vary greatly with life. Sometimes i am “free” for weeks. Most times, however, i end up locked longer because, even when W/we are a vanilla couple Goddess enjoys this aspect.

    When i am locked the routine is i am allowed supervised release for cleaning and shaving and then immediately relocated. Other than that i am allowed out at Her whim.
     
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    I’m locked 24/7 unless she wants to play, which is usually each weekend. Then I’m let out and usually get to cum a couple times over the weekend. Sometimes she leaves me unlocked after play so she can wake up in the morning and use me again.

    It’s a good schedule that works for us. She has really gotten into the KH role since the beginning of the year.
     
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    Locked 24/7 unless she wishes to grant a release. This can be a 'handsie' where I get a ruin in the shower, a 'rub rub' where she sits on top of me and rub her pussy on me till I come (also ruined), or the 'full experience' (which is about 5 minutes of PIV). The last is the only way I get a full release, tempered by the fact that I will be expected to clean up. In all cases the length of my unlock is in minutes.

    She has decided that I will always be locked unless I'm actively engaged in play. The moment she's done I have to lock back immediately. I get about 2-3 releases a month. PIV averages about once a month.
     
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    24/7 for me except for a weekly supervised cleaning and those times she wants to indulge in some CBT and ball busting.
     
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    don't really have a routine it goes on when the mood strikes her and comes off when the mood strikes her I may be in it for an hour, a day, a week. I never know when or how long i'll be in it
     
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    The wife keeps me locked 24/7 and typically wearing very feminine panties all the time now; thongs, g-strings, but usually something pink and lacy, or assless jocks.

    I am let out occasionally for cleaning, typically I am unsupervised while I shower and shave, but that is usually a prelude to our play time together. I am still allowed orgasms, but only on her terms. Typically two or three times a month she allows me to cum.

    There is not a routine, there is no goal, she likes the control and ownership of her property and knowing I am pantied and can only get erect when she allows it excites her.
     
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    For just over a year now, we have adopted a routine of 3 months on and 1 month off.
    During the 3 months lock up, I'm allowed a release each weekend for cleaning/shaving. It's then up to Her if it stays off, or goes straight back on.
    Sometimes, I'm left unlocked for the whole weekend when an orgasm may be on the cards. Other times I stay locked for tease and denial.
     
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    The last year to 18 months have been 24/7 locked, out for cleaning and shave every 3-5 days or so.
    Play time when she wants, most months it’s more oral sex during the week, piv a couple times on the weekends. Maintenance spanking and pegging once a week for me.
    Obviously anything is up to her and is subject to change, occasionally she’ll allow me to sleep cage free and lock back up before she leaves for work, but that’s become more rare as time goes on. Free days are a thing of the past, but I think if a asked and she was home so she knew I wouldn’t play with her property, she may allow it.
    My releases we used to discuss and set at certain lengths of time, now I know I’ll get one full orgasm per month, and possibly a ruin or two per month. All whenever she decides, and those are all subject to change as well.
    About 4-5 years ago, I knew I was having her pussy every day, now I know I’m probably making her pussy orgasm every day still, it’s just my penis probably isn’t involved and my orgasm is almost certainly not happening :)
     
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    when locked it's 24/7, no spare keys, weekly(ish) edging.
     
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    Locked 24/7, if I take it off it's only for play purposes and it doesn't happen very often.
     
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