Hello, I (K, male) am locked by my wife (S, female). We are 10-years married and have enjoyed chastity off and on for most of our time together. I was first locked around 2010, but it would be several years before we found our way to a place and a device for long term chastity. My wife and I both prefer I stay locked, but we have often run into breaks or lulls. Now, heading into the new year 2023, we've decided to make chastity a more consistent and permanent part of our relationship. We primarily enjoy chastity as a sexual activity together. It started with us enjoying her teasing me and denying me orgasms, and it grew into chastity play that became longer and longer term. I was the one to first suggest chastity, but she has very much enjoyed it and has co-encouraged the transition to more permanent chastity. We enjoy giving her all the satisfaction she deserves while I stay locked (though I should add that we are in a closed relationship). I started out with a CB-6000 back in my 20's, but the full enclosure irritated my skin and my erections at the time split that plastic thing open within a few months of use. I've since found a device that works well for me in the Jail Bird from Mature Metal. I've worn it a lot for the past several years, and going forward I expect to wear it a lot more. I've often browsed these forums and found them very informative and supportive. As part of our stronger commitment to chastity, we decided to create an account and join the discussion. We look forward to continuing our journey!
Even though I have be locked in various type devices (mostly cages) and now are locked 24/7 with the wife completely approving of this arrangement I find myself continually trying to encourage her to take things to new levels. I know it breaks the rules and sometimes I find myself blatantly breaking the rules hoping it will result in punishment spanking...on well just trying to get more attention I guess. I'm 75 and still "can't get no satisfaction"...lol! What do you think?
I do some of the same, making suggestions or encouraging new activities. My wife says she likes my suggestions, so it seems to work for us. If you're locked 24/7 with the approval of your wife, then I'm guessing it works for you, too!
Welcome to our group and thank you for the intro. You will find a lot of very friendly and helpful people here so please don’t hesitate to ask questions.
welcome here in the forum and have fun you both on the way just keep us informed how it develops, sounds very exciting
That's a great journey and you are so lucky to be on it with your wife. Good luck in 2023. I hope she keeps you locked and yearning
Welcome, and i will say there are a lot of us out there that have tried various cages, glad you found one that fits your needs