Do you keep track of how many days since last orgasm?

Mine went from 208 in ‘21 to 85 full and 10 ruins through November ‘22, and orgasms for my Wife I’ve only started tracking earlier this year. She has always been consistent, she might skip a few days per month where she doesn’t feel like cumming, and still average about 30-32 per month.
What’s been fun since keeping track of how she’s getting them, my oral service has gone way up the last three months, piv dropping, and she’s also not skipping days as often either. This has coincided with a sharp increase in her seriousness in chastity for me lol, so she’s getting more horny, denying me erections much more, cutting my orgasms more while she’s cumming more often. So all is working exactly as intended I suppose! 2023 should be a frustrating year for me

 

I try to remember the day of the week and then how many weeks each time that day happens. I lose track sometimes and then it becomes just an estimate.

 

I am always counting weeks not days, and it never has gone past 3 weeks so not hard to keep track.

 

We use the Days app for time since my last full O, and the Nice app for tracking pretty much everything we do in the bedroom. It’s a really great app for this…you can edit activities to what you and your spouse like, then select those every time you have an encounter - logs the day/time etc and keeps track of stats.

Current YTD (mind you I got a long break at the start of this last year so my full year to date count is high)…
Her - 222
Me - 49

Since we went back on lock up in the GA2 (June 26th):
Me -2
Her - 105

Most of the 49 for me were in Jan/Feb and tapered off through the spring as we were gauging up my PA to use the new cage which we started in the summer…the app is super cool for tracking and my wife loves hearing how our ratios have gotten wider the longer I’m locked up.

I think her plan next year is to only allow 3 full orgasms for me (something she read) - I’ll get one full one from PIV which I have to clean up, one she’ll allow me to fuck her ass and cum (no decision on inside her or pull out for clean up), and one full blowjob which she has promised to swallow… likely a few milkings/ruins here and there but no other full ones…2023 is gonna be rough.

 

The Nice app? Can you be more specific about what app that is?

 

Here you go…

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/sex-tracker-by-nice/id1107291612

 

I tracked stuff a couple years ago but then generally stopped. For one thing, we stopped the 'release dates' as it felt contrived. It's more exciting when I don't know when she'll let me. Sometimes she'll fix on a date (when we get to mexico) and then change her mind at the last minute. My longest lock up (about 4 1/2 months I think) ended suddently in the shower one morning. She loves to edge me but this particular time she just kept going. Her reasoning? "I wanted to feel you come on me." I've given all the control to her, and she's taken it.

 

When my Wife (KH) first locked my penis up. (3 years ago). I counted the days. Remember making it 30 days without a orgasm. My last orgasm this year was May 15th. I was counting the weeks, but weeks turned to months. I know the last date, but I really don't pay much attention to how long now. My Wife (KH) will tease me with release dates, but so far this year they come and go. My Wife (KH) loves that she can control my orgasms or lack of them. She has already mentioned that there will be no orgasms the rest of this year. And she has told me that a full year is only 5 months away from the new year. She really wants me to go a full year without an orgasm. So I'm thinking it will be May before she even thinks about me having one. Some days I would really like to be able to have a full orgasm, but I realize my Wife (KH) has full control over that.

 

Those Apps sound deviously wonderful!

I keep track on an oldschool calendar - But it's easier if I try not to think about it.

 

Oh yeah, I know the piece that she read...
https://femdomthinktank.blogspot.com/2020/12/guest-submission-chastity-as.html?zx=43a7580707349fab

 

no i dont. but it easy cos i has pills.

 

That’s the one…kinda wish she hadn’t!

 

Ha, and I just sent it to my wife.

 

I keep track generally in my head but as time goes on I think more about making permanent notes of some kind. I appreciate all of the references to methods of tracking, I'm going to investigate.

Since my wife is post-menopausal and has not yet found a way to increase her libido without undesirable side effects, my interest is more about permanent orgasm denial rather than just staying locked until she wants PIV and to feel me climax inside of her. I keep track of the total number of orgasms for me since she started holding the key in May of 2019. I had been doing well at remembering specific occasions for each orgasm since they usually coincided with weekend getaways with no kids or other guests along. But I lost track of the specific timing of my last unlock and orgasm. I can only recall the month.

Last orgasm: July 2022
Total orgasms for me since May 2019: 6 (about 2 per year.). Because of how my mind works with this fetish, thinking about those stats is quite arousing and I enjoy recalling them.

 

Because Madam has determined no more until she is ready, there is no reason for me to keep track. That is her decision and her perogative to keep track or not. I will not have an orgasm ever again anyway. Madam has already informed me that i will be limited to ruined orgasms only, and at her discretion only. But that is the lot of a collared slave. I can only accept what i am given.

 

For anyone looking for a great app to track any form of activity you can imagine, check out Nice. You can set up any activity imaginable and click on a day and just say you did it or click off as many details as you would like from who it was with, the time of day, you can even rate how good it was. They even let you select avatars for the action (sexual organs etc). You can select PIV, with who, how many orgasms you had, how many your partner had, rating, duration, use of protection and so much more. And it shows you on a monthly scale with stats, percentages, you name it. It's my own fantasy sex league lol. I started out using it for everything but tired and just use it for PIV since my wife and I are restarting our intimacy. Here is a screenshot of what November looked like (those symbols are PIV).

 

Yep that’s the same
App I referenced above and we love it!!

 

Sorry, missed that!

 

I use the tracker from here: https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/tracker.htm
It works okay, probably not as smooth as that Nice app (never heard of it before but it looks, well, nice), but I put it in my Dropbox and gave my wife the link so she can also view/edit it any time. Don't think she's interested but myself I really like to know all these stats.

 

I genuinely have no idea. I think keeping track is almost pitiful.
Why would it matter if my last real orgasm was on the 19th June… 182, 5 hours and 14 minutes ago? Knowing those sorts of things would drive a man crazy!

I absolutely keep track

 

Yup Sonhee, same here. I think whether you know how many days/weeks/months it is since your last O/release/whatever is up to you, but I do think you should keep a record of events (in something like the tracker) so that the facts are "knowable". If there's ever a disagreement over how long something has been, well of course, she's right and you're not, but the tracker will show whether she's quoting "facts" or "alternative facts", lol.

 

My wife did not like that I always kept track. Since her word is law, I stopped keeping track.

 

Wow thank you so much for sharing this link - I spent the whole day yesterday reading through everything on the site. It's very informative and erotic to read from a Dom's POV of chastity!

 

I wish the Nice app was available for Android.

 

That sucks- I am surprised since it is such a great app. Do you have an iPad in the house? You may be able to use that.