Why you locked yourself?

I was on Tumblr chatting in a blog about Classic Mustangs. The guy and wife who had restored a few were chatting with me and we spoke about other things than cars and it slipped out that they live in a FLR. After a week or so of background info, the wife spoke about his chastity cage and then was educated on them. Wow, I thought, crazy how someone could do this. Now I have past sexual things that have happened to me, but I have never thought of Chastity or any of the play that can come with it.
In a text she dared me to get a cage and follow a 8 day schedule of wearing and removal. I was up for the date, what’s the big deal is what I thought.
The couple had gone on a trip and so, got a text 21/2 weeks after I got cage in mail. Well she asked and I confessed I had followed her schedule and she then asked where is the cage now, I was online at work and also confessed, I was unable to take it off. Not locked or stuck, but I just couldnt come around to removing or not just keeping it on.
She laugh and wished me luck in my journey.
9 years ago. click

 

I am very small (only 3.75" hard) so I have always been shy about my "cocklette". I saw a chastity cage on a cross dresser online & thought it was cute. It was kinda like jewelry. So I went online & purchased my first cage. Like everyone it took me a while to find one that fit and looked sexy.

Today I wear a metal rainbow HT2 nub. I love the way it looks & feels.. I also am no longer shy. If I am asked to show my cage, I will. I am small, proud, and have a cute cocklette incased in a metal rainbow.

 

I locked myself because I was having a difficult time losing weight and keeping it off. I was addicted to masturbation. Locking myself until I hit my weight loss goals was serious incentive.

Once I was able to hit my weight goals and stay there, I no longer needed chastity until I became dissatisfied with a lack of intimacy in our marriage. We had a sexless marriage for almost 10 years. I had low libido, low T & ED. I discovered nipple stimulation and the new found arousal brought my libido and T back to life. I locked myself because I wanted to masturbate all of the time. I confessed my masturbation problem to my wife, explained the benefits of nipple stimulation to her, and asked her to take my key and control of my sexuality. She obliged and our sex life has taken off.

 

I started strictly out of curiosity, I saw an article and it had the male chastity cages and became obsessed with the idea.
I told my wife and she said I was crazy.
But I ordered my first cage without doing any research and it was way too long but I started wearing it anyway, until the chafing started.
So I did. A little research and bought my current cage which is actually a little too short.
But I'm addicted to wearing it and I can't explain it. I just wish I could get past the chafing but it has gotten worse like raw bleeding worse.
So now I'm waiting for that to heal.

 

My kink started with bondage for very many years before I turned to the form of bondage that involved locking up my genitals. Now, my wife has no interest in bondage, but keeps me locked up as a 'normal' part of our relationship, and I now get far more long term satisfaction in chastity than I used to get from the short term thrill of bondage.

 

I've been into self-bondage for years and used to wear lace briefs that I could tie tightly to apply pressure to my cock for the bondage session. I discovered chastity about ten years ago and found locking my cock enhanced my bondage and could be continued after I had escaped my other restraints. I love the look, feel and frustration of having my cock locked. Despite the fact that I self-lock, I do stay in chastity for extended times.

 

What cage are you using? The CB6000 can be brutal because of the square section of the cock ring that bites into the skin around your balls. Try using a lubricant to allow a little movement.

 

Exactly

 

I have a small Terrance from Amazon

 

When I started I applied some A&D ointment where the cage contacted my skin specially around the ring.

 

I decided to try it one day. I like the feeling of not being able to achieve and erection while caged. I actually enjoy watching porn while caged as well. I feel free from not being allowed to get erect or cum. I personally love it. Hope to get permanently chastised one day

 

I masturbated about twice a day.. in the weekends mostly three to four times a day..
Really addicted and didn’t even fell the extacy anymore when cumming..

I stumbled into a website with chastity cages and read some on the constant arousal it would give.
So for me it really started as masturbation-control…

Over the last twelve years it evolved to a new kink and addiction! I got addicted to wearing the cage which gives me the all-day-ecstasy feeling!

Lately I have come to see it as jewelry so even when not having my exciting feelings of the cage control, I am just proud to wear it.

 

moim powodem jest ciekawość, jak to jest. Rzadko zamykam się na drinka, bo pracuję fizycznie