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    I really wonder HOW do you go through these winter months ...
     
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    It just takes time for your body to adjust to your new restrictions.
     
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    They haven’t yet. It’s been five years. Time goes fast.

    Have you tried silicone gel? It needs to be gel. Lube is too thin to last. A dab around the ring in the morning, then at bedtime works for me.
     
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    I hope not, they're all I have left.
     
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    That gave me a belly laugh!
     
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    Well, I hope that it well be more comfortable with a custom made cage...it depends will my wife hold me permanent locked or not...
    For now, her wish is I wear cage permanently my whole life. Also, she said that it could be changed after few years. If she gets bored or loses interest in whole thing.
     
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    #32 On the Edge 247, Oct 29, 2022
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    I know the feeling, I’m on day 29 of Locktober and my biggest issue currently is sleep deprivation, so much so I had to take my cage off last night so I could get some sleep!
    People advise you to got for a pee which I found works during the first couple of weeks but now I’m entering weeks three and four something changes with my body and I’m aroused all the time, sort of messes with your brain!
    Having a pee now only seems to work for a short period currently and I’m back with those nocturnal erections again, they seem endless …
    I’m hoping and praying for a wet dream, it will be the only way I can get relieved in this particular cage … has not happened yet.
    I’m currently 35 days with no PIV and 29 days with one ruined orgasm in this time! Even my chastity tears seemed to have stopped recently which is a real shame, because I treat that as my own little secret mini orgasm.
     
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    Get a support strap to prevent the cage being pushed away from your body, will alleviate your scrotum burning.
     
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    3 suggestion for you that I found very helpful.

    1. Cage by day, chastity belt at night time.

    2. Compression shorts

    3. Leather strapon harness over the boxer (without the strapon. Unless you want it on, that's also fine, it's nice to have something to grab ;) )
     
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    It is very little know medically about nocturnal erections and chastity. If you hurt like that, it is possible that your cage is not properly sized. I also had initially a lot of pain at night. If your cage is properly designed, you should just feel pressure but not pain. I wrote a guide that might help you if your cage is not properly designed:
    https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...for-24-7-cock-cage-wearing.45079/#post-509577


    Krystine Kellogg made a podcast about my cock cage guide if you are interested:
    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/krystines-flr-podcast/id1529833492?i=1000571210960
    EP: 0241 — https://krystinekellogg.com/podcast.html
     
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    I think this is probably the most sound advice.
    I thinking to give up wearing mine at night, I’ve suffered too many injuries as a result.

    I think I’ll have to invest in a full belt to be able to make it through the nights.
     
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    I also had a lot of issues and got injured at the beginning wearing an incorrect cock cage. Everyone is different, but I think you can get a device that you can sleep in if you go custom. The cage has to perfectly touch your penis. If you allow your penis to grow, that will put a large force on your base ring and the ring cannot support it. In my cage now, I just feel pressure when I get a nocturnal erection. My penis cannot get erect and my ring is tight enough to clamp everything down. That way my ring does not press on my testicles at all. It just takes time to design a cage, but if done properly the cage is comfortable 24/7.
     
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    I feel for those of you who are suffering but for me i actually love the straining.of my semi erect cock on the cage. Its not painful and i often wake and play with my nipples at the same time. That said i dont have to get up early for work!
     
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    I have read “practical Guide and Expectations for 24/7 Cock Cage Wearing

    There’s some really good tips on there so thank you. I’ll definitely look into getting a custom device in the near future.
    My partner is currently onboard and I don’t want to put her off chastity play by creating any further injury to myself, so naturally I’m somewhat hesitant.
     
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    Thank you. Hopefully you can design a cage that works for you. I was miserable at first and it was clear that I would be without a cock cage if I don’t have it properly fitted. All 4 dimensions really matter and are coupled. In my opinion, the only way for the long term use is to systematically design a cage that fits and is comfortable enough.
     
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    I'm only going on a week being locked I get night elections every night still tries to get hard during the day as well yeah some extra sleep would be nice but I also don't want the elections to stop I love the feel of my penis straining against the cage.
     
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    I understand what you mean, I love that feeling too. Just play safe
     
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    Right it's the best feeling ever hey thanks you play safe as well
     
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    i will do my due diligence and for anyone else interested here’s the link https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...xpectations-for-24-7-cock-cage-wearing.45079/
     
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    We dabbled into chastity for years, but it took us some time with my wife to go for it fully. I have been locked 24/7 for a year now or so and we both love it. I sleep in my cock cage, I go to gym, to kid’s events, work, everything. I have no issues and zero pain. That being said, I already adjusted. First, I went for a smaller gap, and just this Sunday, I went for a smaller ring. My scrotum really stretched after a year locked 24/7. My wife and myself both love it for me being locked 24/7. I only have an erection when she allows it. My masturbation is down to 0 and I only cum when and how she allows it.
     
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    Mine have not stopped, or even though about it, my worst on is usually right around 3am
     
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