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    Hi everyone, My partner and I have been in chastity for awhile, she is vanilla at first but now she wants to dominant me.

    Last night before bed, she asked me to learn and get used to doing blowjob on her dildo while she watched.

    She started touching my (her cock) and my thigh, I got horny and my mind was blown. I kinda feel humiliated doing a blowjob but at the same time I felt like i was putting up a sexy show for her after seeing that she was enjoying.

    Does anyone has this experience? If not, I would also like to know your comments.
     
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    Seems kind of weird to me, but if it floats her boat, go for it.
     
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    Congrats. Don't care what anyone thinks except for your wife. As long as both of you are enjoying yourselves what others think doesn't matter.

    That said, I think anything folks don that isn't hurting others is hot.
     
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    My Queen frequently has me get on my knees and give her dildo head cermoniously before a session. Yes, it is humiliating, but she loves the power exchange and I love seeing her so turned on even though it is silly. Everything is sterilized and she adds a condom if it isnt the "pink" dildo, so I guess no harm. For sure it leaves me more submissive feeling after.
     
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    it's an effective way of exerting control
     
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    Who cares if it is weird! If she likes it, then you do It! And your not alone, my madam loves me sucking on her strap on to.
     
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    Then does it go to real cock?
     
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    Mistress has me wear a penis gag whenever I'm online (Like now). It's my "Rent" for getting to go online and She will frequently remind me that this should make me feel more submissive and more like "the Sissy you've become!" She enjoys humiliating me and I have become accustomed to it, too! Whatever She wants!
     
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    Going down on the dildo is just the first step before you graduate to the real thing! Yummy!
     
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    Yeah, pretty sure you are being groomed. Good for you both if that is the case! i got no practice my first time. When the "opportunity presented itself" my Queen just looked at me with a, why are you looking at me? look. i did great, and have gotten even better over time ; )
     
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    That's awesome. I've got penis gag too, reading this makes me want to pull it out and suck on it while I read..
     
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    I've always made husband perform "fellatio" on my strap on. I have a few that "ejaculate".

    There are a lot of recipes for fake ejaculate out there. Some of them will call for questionable ingredients so we don't use them. I use a hypo attached to the tube because you can control the "ejaculation" and make it more like the real thing. The squirty bulbs make it spray everywhere and it's nothing like the real thing.. You keep the tube short so the tiny lab bottle brushes can clean out the whole thing.

    No, I'm not "grooming" husband for the real thing. We both have a hard limit against cuckold, gay/bi.
     
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    Nice
     
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    If I may chime in.... I concur with Ms Cecilia B... that is, I don't think sucking or licking my Miss' toys, dildos, strap-ons is a step toward servicing "the real thing." IMHO, doing this for the amusement and entertainment of my Miss is just between us and not leading to bi/gay sex or a cuckold situation with a bull in the wings.
    I do observe that there is a lot of cuckold sex in FLR fiction, but I know from experience and personal associations (e.g. Bea of BeasTVcloset) that there are many (?) some(?) of us sissies who are totally and only smitten with women. In fact, we're what I call, "lesbian-esque." If I was in a cuckold situation, it would be with two females and myself. Likewise, just because I enjoy being pegged by my Miss does not mean I have any desire for the real thing. I just think Women look really hot using a strapless strap-on, especially with another woman (e.g. StrapLezz strap-on videos featuring very cute Russian(?) ballarina types... long, lithe, lissome.... or as featured in the erotic lesbian fiction of Jordan Church in which there won't be a male to be found, cover to cover.)

     
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    I did that, kinda just practicing for the real thing lol,
     
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    I also like to tease my sissy when she is in chastity by sucking on her chastity device and making her get hard and sometimes she has an orgasm with the cage on.
    She can’t really get hard but she can cum a little bit, like pre cum
     
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    What is it that you use. Both the cocks that ejaculate as the liquid used? I'm interested in experiencing something like this as well.. O wait eumm.. asking for a friend;)
     
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    Mmm good, just kidding, I want to know too,
    Tell us
    Jennifer
     
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    I have a couple of different ones from the cheapies on ebay to the higher end name brands. I started with the cheapies to see it it would work. Once we were comfortable with it, I went to the better ones. Most of them come with the squeeze bulb thingy. Husband's handy, so he knows how to put the syringe on instead.

    There are some cheapies and even expensive squirting dildos where you squeeze the scrotum and draw up the "ejaculate" in it. We stay away from those because you can't clean them. The ones with the plastic tube can be cleaned. You can pull out the plastic tube. You can buy long and thin brushes from any lab supply site. You just run soapy water through the tube and then scrub with the brush. BE SURE TO RINSE THOROUGHLY once you've scrubbed. Husband even has a couple of "rinsey brushes" he uses only when he rinses them.

    There are various recipes for fake ejaculate on the internet. The one I use has corn starch, egg whites and salt, I heat it up in a sauce pan and stir. I add water as needed to thin it out.

    Some of the recipes will tell you to use questionable or toxic ingredients. They'll say to only use a pinch or other small amount, but husband says even that much can have bad consequences, so DON'T DO IT..

    i have milked husband and frozen his ejaculate until I got enough to use but it took forever, as a lot of times I wanted PIV or to do fellatio on him. Also, he usually ejaculates at least twice during a Disciplinary Session (and yes, he gets extra spankings for it besides having to lick it up). I only did that once.
     
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    We dont have such toys.. ok, unless the chastity device is considered as one.. I have never been made to put up such act too.. but she did mention if i were in a homosexual relationship.. i would make a good bottom.. maybe she judged from the my sitting habit when peeing way before chastity.. maybe she found my dressing colors slight flamboyant.. ok, grooming for the real thing? She did mention all good husbands should suck a dick at least once.. so have a feel if such act is fair to their girlfriends/wives.. ok, she still hasnt make me do it.. yet.
     
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    My Wife really likes me sucking her strap on as well before taking me. Back when she used to allow masturbation, she would have me jerk off on it then order me to suck and lick my cum off it before pegging me.
    But her kink was to watch me suck and swallow a real penis and another man’s cum.
    Four months ago that started, she hasn’t seen it live yet.
    She started loaning me out now to a femdom friend of hers who is now cuckolding me with her Bull.
    She sends my wife videos of it though.
    Long story, but at 59 and never even touching a penis other then my own.
    I have now clean cream pies, fluffed, and brought a man to orgasm down my throat.
    Could never imagined it.
    It is pretty erotic and another thing my Wife wanted me trained to do.
    She will be witnessing it live in a few weeks.
    It’s humiliating and degrading, but Wifey just likes taking things to new levels.
    I would have to go into great detail about this came about, but after two years of Covid things are starting back up with my wife’s femdom group. I been told this is just the start of my new life after Covid.
    The ladies are already planning more humiliating things for us subs and there’s going to be slave auctions for charity.
    So I need to prepare, because of the fact I don’t have many hard limits. I should go for big bucks.
     
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    Awesome development @cumslave_2002 and @Ms.Shauna !
     
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    thank you for the information, W/we have thought about a squirting dildo so i can know what it feels like to have cum shot into me. W/we aren’t practicing for the real thing but if we were this seems far more humiliating to me.
     
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    Chastity Condom Cuckold: My femdom roommate will lock me in one of her chastity cages from her collection with me totally naked on my knees. She will stick a suction cup realistic cock dildo to a door mirror. I have 30 seconds to apply a condom on the dildo using my mouth with my wrist cuffed behind me. If I fail, she zaps me on my balls. I have to keep trying until I succeed 3 times in a row. She says this skill may come in handy in the near future when we go to the gloryhole booths.
     
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    We aren't "practicing" for the "real thing" either. I'm not sharing husband with anybody. While I do "ejaculate" in his sissy hole, I like the ejaculating dildos for when he performs "fellatio" on me.. I like seeing the "ejaculate" run down his cheeks and neck like in the pornography videos or giving him a facial.

    Husband says he doesn't feel anything when I "ejaculate" in his sissy hole.
     
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