Newbie

Hi everyone, like many newbie’s, have been watching in the background, but thought I would like to share my recent experiences with you.
I actually came across male chastity by accident, and as my intimate relationship with my wife of many years was becoming basically boring, I suggested we tried a device. I’m not locked long term, (4 days the longest so far), and regularly work away so not locked then. We are new to chastity and after reading about it, I wanted to try it hoping my wife would rekindle her passion and sexuality, our rules were basic, when I’m caged she is mistress, she chooses when and how long I caged, and when released I’m not allowed to orgasm without permission, my rule is she has to hide the key at home if she goes out in case I need to remove the device.

My wife who is normally quite about what pleases her, has certainly taken to it like a duck to water. We recently went away but she decided not to cage me for the holiday. Whilst dressing on our check out day, she threw her panties she had worn the day before at me and told me to put them on, that was definitely the most frustrating flight I’ve had. Whilst in the car as she drove back from the airport, she reached across, unbuttoned my jeans, she wanted to check that I had drooled in her panties, I certainly had, she rubbed me erect then told me to masturbate, my initial reaction was “pardon”, she’s never asked that before, she replied she wanted to watch me cum, so I did what I was told. When we arrived home she teased me then another first for her, she gave me a ruined orgasm whilst inside her, when she finished I showered and she promptly locked me up. Next morning she teased me with her wand for a while then unlocked me and continued to frustrate me and no matter how much I pleaded she wouldn’t let me orgasm. Then another first, and hopefully not the last time, when I thought she had finished with me and was stepping across me to get the cage, she squatted and ordered me to clean her even though she hadn’t showered from my ruined orgasm, then she gave me permission to cum as she gave me hand relief, needless to say it didn’t take long. Later that day she offered me sex but I had just finished some chores and said to give me a minute, where she left the room and reappeared with my chastity device and said my opportunity had passed and locked me up, that was 2 days ago and all she said was I would regret not taking up her offer.

Like I said we are new to chastity and introduced it as an attempt to rekindle some passion, but also think my wife has found a new side to herself that she didn’t realise she had and we both definitely enjoy it when I call her mistress and I am enjoying this new dominant partner ordering me to due things I would have never have done in the past.

 

Thanks

 

Thanks, I have certainly learned from posts on CM

 

Thanks, like I said been watching in the background, and the posts have made me comfortable enough to trust sharing.

 

Thanks, I am also very surprised at how quickly she has taken to chastity. Reading some posts today about how

thanks, yes it has been fun and I’m really surprised how quickly she has taken to it. Not sure where she is reading about chastity, but after reading some posts on CM today I tried to see if I could get out of my device,( no I couldn’t ), I told my wife about what I tried to do, she told me I needed to be punished, so I had to endure 10 minutes of her wand. She is definitely a new woman.

 

Thanks, I did lots of reading before I suggested chastity, and definitely learned a lot from CM, I knew that from the beginning I had to be totally submissive for it to have a chance, even if it meant doing something I wasn’t keen on, but she is worth it.