Long term vs Short term

The longest I've gone locked without an orgasm is around 100 days. That was the target.

The first few weeks are the hardest but as you say you do get used to it and settle in. Once I get past the initial few weeks the desperation waned and I'm fine for the most part. I still get the odd day where I'm climbing the walls though.

 

i went from June 21 2021 to January 2 2022. It was difficult the first month or so. but got easier as time went on. That is not to say i did not desire release daily. When my wife granted me a release in January it was soooo intense. It made my eyes water and the amount of ejaculate that came out was impressive. But it was strange though. I am currently 25 days in on my current lock up and i feel like my last release was not enough. It may just be greed selfishness on my part. I hope it will subside sooner than later. I have no idea when i will get my next release so i am hoping i can settle in and get my mind right.

 

My last FO was at 2 September 2021. So, I am now 153 days without a full release. In between I was ruined 3 times. The pleasant thing I discover in particular since last week, is that I can hardly remember how a "full release" felt. I am aching for intimacy with my Love and her tease and denial, not for cumming or releasing anymore...

 

I'm regularly locked up for periods of 3 and 6 months at a time, it's rarely less than a couple of months now. I'd say the difference between short and long term is around the month mark.

There's a definite difference after a month when your hormones and mental state settle down and instead of wanting to be released to have an orgasm, you get comfortable in a constant level of 'happy bliss'.

What's important with this measure isn't so much the time that you're physically locked up, but the time between orgasms.

 

My last FO was Jan 1st, but I did have a great RO on Jan 22

 

No release since September. For me, the first couple of weeks weren't bad, just now in the past few weeks things have gotten a little rough.

 

Bad how? Just too much horniness?

 

Unbelievable horniness! At this point I'd fuck almost anything!

 

Lol, for some reason that gave me a flashback to when we had a dog when I was a kid and one day we saw him humping the couch. He'd got his dick in between the couch itself and the seat cushions that were on it.

 

You go through spells of several days at a time when you don't much think about it and it's pretty easy, and then, for no apparent reason, you get horny as hell. But that passed. Then the cycle begins again. Good luck.

 

I'm feeling sensitive to this subject today, as it's Day 100 locked 24/7 without erection. I don't see this changing anytime soon, she seems uninterested in using him. I'm afraid to ask her what her plans are since one of our rules is that sex is up to her, and, more importantly, I'm afraid of what she'll say, that she'll say it's indefinite. As a masturbator I know I deserve (and need) to be locked when she's not using him, but she's using him less and less and the denial periods keep getting longer. I'm starting to wonder whether it'll be a year or more, or whether it's permanent, whether we'll ever have PIV again. It's kind of frightening. Maybe I can ask her to supervise me masturbating, or at least having an erection.

 

Embrace it, haha.

 

day 128 for me, last RO was locked November 5th, love being locked more than free, its become part of me

 

I actually cannot remember my last penile orgasm, but I am allowed anal orgasms regularly, so I’m not sure I would count as being O free.

 

Excellent! Two to four per year is perfect, enough to remember what you've given up and not enough to reawaken your toxic masculinity.

 

i think it must be ever so hard for a proper man to be lock in a little cage for a long time cos they alwasy wanting to make mess and if they am not let out for ages and they cant some wud go mad i think. but them ones am usual only lock up for little bits of time.

 

I haven’t had a orgasm now since January’21. And know that I won’t before my 60th birthday in November’22. After a year now I’ve come to accept the frustration and denial.
I completely focus on my wife’s pleasure only now. And no matter how horny or frustrated I’am, sexually pleasure is only about her needs.

 

No, the only relief I get is giving myself a prostrate milking while she supervises any where from once a month, but usually three to five months. Depends if I can milk myself in less than ten minutes. Otherwise I’m punished with a month penalty and a month waiting period. So last year I only had three successful prostrate milkings.

 

I assume from your comment that you no longer consider yourself a 'proper man', if you ever did. Does your Mistress sometimes allow you a little 'spurty' and if so, how often?

 

@seasoned please i used to be milk evry 8 week once and a bit of watery white mess dribble out but now i have been on my pills from the clinic for over 2 year and Mistress dont bother milk me no more cos nothing was come out me. but i am more happy now than i was.