Well firstly hello to you all - I m fairly new here but just wanted to ask the following and a bit about me and gain some advice I am happily married but and here is the but I have been in chastity for over an year sometimes up to few months at a time and my wife has no idea - that says it all. Are there any others whose wife don't know there men are locked up and how to manage? I am looking for a new KY preferably in UK, I am also very sub and at times cross dress fully. Anyway hope you all are having fun and a good day.
Welcome to our community. I hope you find it useful and entertaining. Your situation is much like mine, so yes, there are others like you. Good luck and enjoy.
Welcome! From a guy who's wife is almost as vanilla as it comes, there were many time I would practice self lockup without her knowledge. Usually she would find out eventually with a playful slap to the groin. I would often hide it and pretend chastity was her idea. Sounds sad I know. Fast forward to recently and she is more accepting of it. We will see how the new cage goes when it gets here. My only advice is don't push it and timing is everything. In this relationship, traditional marriage comes first, then kink. Priorities for both.
Do you initiate sex with her and get rejected or are you both submissive and waiting for the other to initiate?
Thank you - to be honest she has always been very vanilla and now just not interested in any sex or close contact. Me I’ve be one the opposite and want sex all the time and anything far from vanilla
Hello hello and welcome to the Mansion! I am new to caged chastity so until I figure out if this is truly the path forward i want to take i haven't told my wife yet. So yes there are others whose S.O. doesn't know.
Pluck up the courage and tell her how you feel I’m so glad I did our relationship is stronger happier and much much more fun! If you need a chat come n say hi no pressure and no judgment
Yes I have initiated and made clear its not getting anywhere, don't get me wrong she is amazing and I don't expect anything since her illness, but its just the situation sadly.