Hello, I am sure that the title of these few words is used a great deal. So, per the instructions, I will let everyone know who I am, and what I am about. I am a male, who has been in chastity, off and on several times every year. I know this isn't much to brag about but I have been in chastity for the longest about 4 weeks solid. So, that is the longest I have ever gone. Right now it is more fantasy than actual life style. I know weak. But I think you have to begin some where. I began around 2004, started with a CB2000, clear plastic, that I purchased off Amazon. I kept splitting these units along the seem, which then would pinch me back and blue. Often I would come out of the device after only 24 hours and have blood blisters up and down my little buddy. Normal people would have stopped. I instead doubled down. I remember one time that I didn't wait until I was soft, and I forced a CB6000S on to me. I did this using soap as lube. I wore this about 48 hours. The problem was My skin had an allergic reaction to the soap, this caused my skin to being to fall off. It was like having a sun burn peal every day in my most intimate areas, for two weeks. I then went into the Dr. he gave some steroids'. That caused the problem to go away. After a month or or so I was back at it trying again. I have dried off and on several different devices. Price always seemed to be 1 issue with me. The other was a key holder. I am recently divorce. Less then a month as I write this. My wife at the time, didn't like this at all. She was only a keyholder for about a month. Never again to return. This was about 8 years ago. Since her time as my keyholder I have tried to do it myself, so I wasn't ruining my relationship. I don't have the necessary self control to practice self locking for more than 10 days or so. Wow, I am vomiting all sorts of information. I guess I must be excited to be here. lets see. I will give brief description; • 45 years old. • Male. • My prime is behind me and a head of me. • Own my own business. • Very much interested in Chastity and learning and participating in all aspects of it. • Gray hair. (Have the monk bald spot) • Out door enthusiast I love to; ◘ climb ◘ shoot ◘ ski ◘ hike ◘ SCUBA dive ◘ all out doors manly stuff. • I am physical, and work out daily. • I am into BDSM, • bit of a masochist. Alrighty, I think that is a brief introduction. I hope I didn't do to much. Again I think I am excited. To all those that take the time to read; thank you for your time, I appreciate it. I look forward to meeting many of of you and to learn and grow from those who know more than I. Please have a great, safe day.
Thank you. It is raw still, but I am looking forward to tomorrow with a smile, a heart full of hope. I don't know what else to do.
Thank you All/all so much. It is comforting to know that there are so many wonderful people who offer such a warm and inviting greeting. I look forward to reading, learning, and getting to know each of you better. Thank you again for the warm welcome.
Welcome here! And oh yes, do not lose your hair over the previous experiences. Once you really know what you want, you will find the right person to do it together.
Hello and welcome! Poke around the site a bit by checking out the different subforums & threads and look through the gallery of the various members here. I'm sure you will find quite a few members have very similar interests as you.
You might want to think about searching through Fetlife and other SM / Fetish protals. Do party visits and so on.... Because of your status as a self-employed I recommend you then latex / leather masks to wear, explicitly because of veiling not because of fetish! So you could possibly make contacts in the immediate vicinity and possibly meet potentially interesting people.