Types of Male Orgasm and explaining them to my vanilla wife.

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    #1 Guest 6019, Jun 1, 2021
    My lovely wife is often put off by terms we use, and I want to explain how different types of orgasm work and when best to utilise them to effectively manage my orgasms, keep the ultimate pleasure focused on her, and help us to maintain the chemical balance.

    Ruined, Stifled, edged, Full, prostate....What have I missed?
     
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    #2 DoesasTold, Jun 1, 2021
    Hands free nipple orgasm. Not easy to achieve but very possible. I can confirm that!
    :)
     
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    #3 MsObeyance, Jun 1, 2021
    No orgasm :D
     
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    #4 tecolote, Jun 1, 2021
    Sounds like maybe she's not ready to be told how to manage your orgasms? Just a thought.
     
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    #5 Guest 6019, Jun 1, 2021
    LoL...Admittedly, it is slow going...

    Although she has fully embraced me being locked up, she hasn't embraced her inner domme. I'm still working on why she should manage my orgasms. How she does is, of course, up to her.
     
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    #6 Maid Denise, Jun 1, 2021
    Wish someone would explain to me what a Ruined orgasm is.
     
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    #7 tecolote, Jun 1, 2021
    It seems like we are in a similar place. If you find that magic key, let us know what it is!
     
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    #8 Guest 6019, Jun 1, 2021
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    I didn't know until recently. A ruined is when you are stimulated until you come, but just before you ejaculate all stimulation is removed. It provides some relief but lessens the subdrop
    @Maid Denise
     
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    #9 SubHubbyInChastity, Jun 1, 2021
    My Miss has become an expert at ruining orgasms. The trick is to repeatedly edge, and stop all stimulation WELL before an orgasm builds. Eventually your sperm will just "run" out of your penis. There are no contractions, no feeling. Almost feels like you are peeing... but not quite. All your sperm is drained, and none of the horniness is lost.
     
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    #10 Guest 6019, Jun 1, 2021
    That's some Next Level shit man!
     
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    #11 JaySaysYes, Jun 2, 2021
    Caged
    Forced
     
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    #12 Guest 6019, Jun 2, 2021
    You can't just JaySay two words and not expand on your experience!
     
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    #13 JaySaysYes, Jun 2, 2021
    Ha! I'm sorry.

    I'm sure someone that writes better and has more experience will share.
     
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    #14 jvabox, Jun 2, 2021
    If she is that vanilla she probably won't go for anal stimulation that combined with a vibrator would work on a caged cock, the other way is a vibrator placed between the balls and the cage this can drive you crazy once the cum starts to flow she can quickly stop probably the easiest way to ruin
     
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    #15 nubbin, Jun 3, 2021
    No i can attest after some practice i can now time or sense my first ejaculation contraction and then take my hand away. My cock will twitch and harden and my semen will drool or dribble without any spurting. These ejaculation while draining semen will leave me no sense of having just cum and will be frustrated again the next day.
     
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    #16 Gonzo, Jun 3, 2021
    Mental orgasm?
    Something has happened to me when my lovely wife and mistress teased me and let me cool down and teased me and let me cool down repeatedly at some point something switches and her dick stops throbbin in the cage and my mind explodes and i'm overwhelmed with love for my wife and cuddle her wildly. I've even cried.
     
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    #17 SubHubbyInChastity, Jun 4, 2021
    YES! THIS!! That feeling is more intense than any orgasm I've ever felt.
     
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    #18 Ilikebond, Jun 4, 2021

    Yeah, my wife is an expert at this now.
     
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    #19 Drews, Jun 4, 2021
    My extra vanilla wife does not like if I give her suggestions. She has said I gave her control of when I get unlocked years ago so she is not interested in being told what to do. Unlike most here it seems my wife loves the feeling when I cum after a lock up.
     
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    #20 Outtoftime99, Jun 5, 2021
    I can cum rubbing my nipples
     
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    #21 Disciplined Boyfriend, Jun 5, 2021
    One that is not totally pleasurable. For example, abandoned is just at the point of ejaculation all stimulation stops, or a serious slap, thumb over the end. All these have some sort of release but usually end up with the man feeling frustrated
     
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    #22 winstonmacgregor, Jun 5, 2021
    The most popular is the frivolous orgasm that many people have which is barely enjoyable but more of a chore or compulsion.
     
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    #23 jemima, Jun 5, 2021
    i think what he mean is that you are lock up in your cage and electric thingys are put inside you and then the little box is switch on and left till you make a mess inside your cage. i was done like that when i still cud make mess
     
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    #24 Guest 6019, Mar 19, 2022
    I had a weird orgasm today. Probably a pure perfect ruin I think.

    I had massaged Mrs Jah extensively and then she held me rhythmically by the cage through my boxers. I asked if she would hold the vibrating three-pronged back massager on there, and she agreed.

    After a very pleasant 10 minutes or so, which throughout I gently moaned and bucked a little, but never really got properly hard, like when I'm dry humping, and never really felt like I was going to come, or felt really on edge. I was asked to use it in her feet.

    About a minute later I felt, what I thought was, several drips of pre-cum traveling up my shaft and coming out into my shorts. Noticing something different, a few minutes later I investigated and realised it was more than pre-cum. Only two days after a full as well. But I'm always full it seems, even at 50. Lol

    I told Mrs Jah, and she said "That's good then"

    I started wondering what that meant. Though it was probably nothing, I was instantly hard wondering if she was thinking 'Well I guess I don't have to unlock him now"

    Can someone (my brain can't do it) compile a list, in order from no orgasm, no arousal. Through to full orgasm of the range and types of male orgasm?. I'm sure the classification order is debatable, and interesting
     
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    #25 Coolhandluke, Mar 19, 2022
    This happened twice. I still struggle to understand.
    First time, Wife sat on my face, slapping my balls.
    She stopped hitting them, I took hold of my cock and it was very wet, she climbed off, I asked her was she ok, yes, you came though.
    I had no feeling, no "about to cum" moment, just cum came out, lots of it too. She said she slapped it out of them.
    Second time was similar.
    She's slapped my balls many times but only if she's sat on my face does this seem to work.
     
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