There has been a lot of change in our relations after visiting this site. We have gained a lot of personal content, and more than just kink, it has got the appearance of lifestyle. Now I am not the owner of this site but still I want to ask you what is the best thing about the site? And why?
The community of people on the site. Although it is superbly managed and designed, without all the wonderful input and participation from the wide range of members here, it wouldn't really standout. JMO
For me it’s the community and ability to be open about who you are, what you like and know you will be accepted, as well as be able to ask anything and people will help.
The sheer variety is amazing. Very interesting and quite educational for some of us. And such a nice group of people for the most part.
From a vanilla woman's perspective this site helped normalize some of the crazy my husband has presented me with over the years. It now seems less crazy as I have other crazy people to share with. I say this with complete affection for all.
it's a pleasingly non-judgemental place and doesn't lapse into the sanctimonious mud-slinging that ruins Fetlife.
It’s funny it helped me realise I wasn’t as crazy or odd as I thought I was, I guess like us all our normality is dictated by our exposure to what is around us, you come here and learn a new normal (0: Certainly this place made me feel much less a freak and more vanilla lol
I think it is great to have a community with such varied opinions and experiences but crucially everyone’s opinion is respected and people have civil disagreements mostly. I also think it is very good because usually people speak about the reality of chastity, FLR and other activities rather than just the fantasy side of things. So it can help to temper peoples expectations and make for a better experience for everyone.
The early days (lol listen to me, like I'm not still just a newbie!) of cuckolding were incredibly intense for me. It was the amazing people on this site both in posts and private chats that helped me find success. Knowing others had walked my walk before me and were so incredibly kind enough to offer sage advice was priceless. The other thing is the way everyone has welcomed @MrsBR_Saiph and made her a part of this great scene here. Watching her come into her own here has been exhilarating. Cheers to all.
For me it’s the whole lot, the way it’s laid out, the people the information available here, it’s all good!
This site is the reason that my wife is my KH. She had this terrified look on her face while I was trying to explain why we needed this. She read the forums and realized my feeling are real and mutual with a lot of people. She was especially impressed by the opinions of female KH's
This is the only online community I’ve ever really participated in. The sense of community here is great. Last year I was having some mental health issues to do with sex and body image and shared some thinking here, the responses I got from a number of members were very helpful. I check in here every few days, always interesting to see who is chatting about what!
The best thing about this forum is the members. The vast majority of places to chat on the net are full of people who hide behind their online anonymity and their behaviour shows it to the detriment of the group. Here, everyone behaves, contributes and learns. Scrub that... I've just realised. The best thing about this site must be the admins, as it's they who make a site what it is.
For me, the best thing is that there is a greater proportion of genuine people than I have ever found on other sites. Being able to chat to, get advice from and learn from some of those people has been instrumental in helping come "out" to my girlfriend as a submissive. A few of the verified ladies have been particularly helpful with this, by explaining how my girlfriend may feel about me and how to help her understand and enjoy it.
What I found attractive about this site, and the reason I joined and hung around (even after I lost interest in chastity devices) is the variety of people here. All walks of life can be found on this site. From the hardcore BDSM fans to people who are as vanilla as can be in every other way, and even a few transgender people like myself.