Contract!

Interesting document. I could see it working for some but not others. I find it surprising that having tried chastity before, and now after a break, she suggests a contract. I think that might mean she wants more from you, and this could be a good step if you're seeking a true FLR. Good luck and enjoy.

 

Sound like you really didn't need this contract to begin with... sounds like this was all status-quo beforehand. Just my opinion though.

 

Good luck on your journey from here and hope it al goes the way you want!

 

I think a contract is a great idea. I'd make one longer than that but it has a strong symbolic vibe

 

We have signed a chastity slave contact about six months ago. It is a three page contract. I deal daily with contacts in my profession. Therefore I prepared a very detailed contract.
I am refered as slave and she as mistress. The contract basicly gives all the rights to her. She can punish the slave whenever she wants. How I earn punishments are in detail.
The most crucial punishment is one year of non removal of the device and daily tease and denial session if I ever try to remove the device or try to have a sissygasm without her knowledge. There are twenty points goes down to one Day punishment for the things like living the bathroom dirty.
She was questioning the idea of permanent chastity until the contract. But she had a lot of fun while preparing it. Now she is very strict with the rules. And I love it.
We both are not into other People. We are doing this only to save our declining sex life. Therefore I have only one right in this contract. She can not force me to be with a Man.
Six months passed. It looks like it is working well for both of us.

 

It took me years to convince her to chastity. I made her read lots of stuff about it. Finally signing a contract and refering her as mistress trigered something in her. I loved it. I jumped into that opportunity.
It works differently for every couple. Do whatever works for you.

 

Why wouldn't she write it?

 

Contract is the reason why she is into chastity now. She was suprised to see the effort I made for it. She loved the idea and made lots of changes on the contract. Mostly the penalties...

 

A lot of people find contracts very valuable for managing their chastity or FLR relationship, particularly in terms of defining the boundaries, which is highly important. It's not something that appeals to me at all., though. The idea of having to obey because it's contractual, rather than because I choose to serve in that way, would take the satisfaction out of it.

 

My wife and I have a contract first written in 2014 and updates every 6' month. We are both comfortly with it. It contains:

- what I'm allowed to do (small content)
- what I'm not allowed (large content)
- what I'm supposed to do (large content)
- punishment (also large content)
- different restrictions towards other people (semi large content)
- how I should dress private and in public (large content)
- what she will do for me (extra small content)

We call it a slave contract but it's more a way to establich her domination and my submissiveeness.

In the right contex she call me slave but mostley subie or sissy, seldom my name. And this works great for us!

 

We don’t have a contract, we just go with the flow. Years ago we agreed to try chastity with a few oral ground rules and have expanded over the years. The main thing is open dialogue and agree ahead of time on duration and boundaries. Of course, things do take on a life of their own and modifications are made on the fly. The only thing, if one of us is dead set against it, it doesn’t happen.

she is the Moore adventurous while I am somewhat conservative. One thing I learned is to trust her and when she pushes the boundaries the turn out great 99 percent of the time.

 

Contracts, Rules, Agreements, I kind of see them as all being different forms of the same thing. I think they're nice in that it lays out the details and structure of the dynamic, and the process of together putting it together, with the communication and the understanding, is probably more important than the end document itself. That said, the written words are nice to have, particularly for refining over time.

 

Spot on, we hade a great time when we did it and also love to fresch it upp every 6' months. I the end it's Madames word and action that count.

 

i think contacts are silly. you just does what you are told to do and not moan.

 

Our contract is iron (chastity metal stainless more like it) clad and legally binding with a blackmail caveat securing it. My Goddess is a very detail oriented little lady. It was written back in July but in truth began to really take shape in September. We detailed it using a book on the facets in a real life FLR and is certainly a highly sexual document. I love it, no regrets at all, and am living well within its framework. It's our second one and is more detailed than the first. I would be very hard pressed to reveal it here only because it's our dirty little secret and I like it that way. It hangs in my little sissy bedroom as a constant reminder along with a pic of the Goddess wearing my key. I get all hot and bothered just thinking about our undertaking and the deep level of commitment that it brings.

Enjoy yourself with this very exciting step.

 

I wrote up a slave contract when we first started playing with chastity. Mistress was excited by the idea, but we didn't really refer to its specifics again after that.

However the Mistress/slave aspect of our relationship has lasted since then essentially unchanged.

 

Sounds like a very interesting contract would have been curious to know some more about. Could imagine it change the power dynamic of the relationship when she have the leverage.

 

could be something help, but in my opinion the most power contract is the Key that KH own!! to have a release male do almost everything.