Will chastity cure my infidelity

there's a point where fantasy ends and reality begins, and I think you've found it. No, chastity is not going to help you with this. Only you can do this.

what does your relationship mean to you? Are you ready to jeopardise it for a fling? The answer to that doesn't rely on a chunk of metal around your balls.

Good luck

 

As @LesterBallard says, you need to want to be faithful first and covet what you have. That said, having a chastity cage locked onto your cock means that it would be physically impossible to have intercourse and probably a bit embarresing when someone sees it so it would act as a deterrent.

But it depends on what the definition of "being unfaithful" means. Is it having sex, mutual masturbation, just flirting, or even just looking at the pretty ladies? And you still want to do these things, then maybe a chastity cage will focus your mind onto the one who has the keys. Let her, and her body be the focus of all your sexual energy.

 

https://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/2009/12/11/chastity-therapy/

 

Chastity may or may not cure adultery. It’s a psychological issue not physical.

However castration will.

Wether she cuts your balls off physically or financially. You’ll be half the man you were.

Sleep with one eye open.

Best regards

Cowboy

 

Agree. Chastity cages won’t prevent infidelity. You have to want to be faithful in your heart and mind.

 

@Cricketer15 please wont the man or Lady that has got your keys wonder why your cage is all broked and messed about with after a bit.

 

I won't lie to you, I only read the subject of the post... and I would say unless you have a PA securing the device it will not stop you, but...

Welcome to The Mansion!!! X_x

 

in my opinion, cheating can still take place even if you keep your pants on. That said, chastity may be a deterrent, but won't stop you from being unfaithful. In your heart and mind/thoughts, with your eyes and the rest of your body, you can be very unfaithful without using your bits. You have to want to be faithful...

 

Well, admitting your problem and desiring change is a good first step. If you have a good escape proof cage and a keyholder that ensures you are only unlocked for them, it could be a solution.

Without knowing the dynamics of your relationship, it’s hard to understand your motivations to cheat in the first place. You need to really look deep and explore the reasons and situations that cause you to stray so you can address them as well. Does your partner know that you struggle with fidelity?

 

Was it the solution for us? No. Is it a good training tool and a physical reminder? Yes.

I can't speak for other's dynamic but based upon my own experience in can help. If you're expecting a silver bullet, however, you're likely to be disappointed.

 

I agree! Also welcome to the mansion!

 

If your relationship is not worth your effortless fidelity then its not worth much and worth even less to her

 

I agree completely. Since I have turned my life over to my wife of 29 years I only think of her. No porn or fantasies, just true love. I did not think that this existed

 

Firstly, welcome.

Secondly, no it won't. It sounds as though you're looking for an easy fix to a complex situation. You've basically got three choices: do nothing and continue being unfaithful; commit to actually working on it - physically, mentally and emotionally; or end your relationship with your spouse..........

 

So, the answer is yes, it will.

 

Nop
Infidelity cant be "cured" by sextoys.

 

Welcome to CM.

No, it won't. It might act as a deterrent for turning your fantasy into an ugly reality but it won't stop you if you really go with the temptation. Just keep this in mind - the grass always LOOKS greener on the other side. And there's almost never a way back.

 

Welcome

 

Good luck with your plan

 

I had a coworker who once said, “Eating ain’t cheating”.

it’s still infidelity, even if you don’t use your cock.

 

Sure will. I'm also fairly certain it will cure all of the world's ills, end poverty, hunger and suffering in general.
But, on a serious note, it might act as a sort of psychological deterrent, however, as folks have pointed out, it should be a quality device, reinforced by piercing.

 

No. Chastity can't stop you from cheating on your wife.

Only having a conscience will do that and a chastity cage cannot replace your conscience.

 

Yes, 100% it will.

I used to have 10 women on the go at once and none of them knew I was a cheating lying scumbag with zero integrity and was just a knuckle draging oxygen thief, and then one day I put a sex toy on my junk and I was totally cured of my complete lack of honestly, control, and low IQ, just like you are now.