Who is your Key Holder and what is their Title

My wife is my KH, title is my princess. She really seems to like being called that.

 

Key holder is my wife
No pet name

 

My keyholder is my wife. In private, i use "Mistress" and "Mistress AMA" to address Her. In public, i try to use Ms (first name) as much as i can without being obvious.

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KH is my wife and her title is Mistress

 

My keyholder is a friend of my wife and I. She refers to me as her servant and her boi, but I generally call her by her name. If I'm referring to her, it's usually...."I'm in service to...and her name."

My wife and I do kinky stuff (chastity/strap-on) but she isn't into kink. She enjoys my chastity, now that she doesn't have to be the one making sure I do it. We don't have titles and such.

 

Disclaimer: While I am locked, I also have access to the keys (but would never dream of unlocking without permission.) So my "keyholder" is keyholder not in a physical sense but because of my commitment to her, if that makes sense.

My "keyholder" is a semi-retired Prodomme who allowed me to become her personal outside the Pro setting. I still call her Mistress, never her real name. When we are in public together, I call her Boss.

 

Fun turn of events today

This morning I called my wife “Princess” as I usually do, then she looked at me and asked:” Since we’re married wouldn’t I then be your Queen?”
Me: wouldn’t that make me your king?
Her: >> giggling << No, you can be my prince, since I’ll be the one ruling of cause

we both had a laugh

as of today and onward she’ll be called my Queen

 

KH is wife. Her title is Courtesan

 

my KH is my wife
no title
BUT
in french we have two "you" ("tu" and "vous")
one for friends
the second for many people or for "deference"
i use these for Her since 30 years

 

Her title? She has many, as do we all. Teacher, wife, step mother, daughter, sister, friend.

As far as our arrangement we have went through a few variants. At first, since I was blogging and writing about her I couldn’t just keep calling her...her, so she picked something out. Mistress Amante. It worked for writing, texts, and the occasional whisper in her ear, but in general wasn’t used often enough to keep doing. Just mistress was next, mostly in text or during play.

As much as having a pet name for our dynamic is hot, I didn’t realize how little we actually use names when conversing. It’s not natural or needed. I mean how often do you actually mention someone’s name when your talking with them. Mostly I will only use the formal “title”in text like “good morning mistress” or as a response to questions during punishment...yes mistress or no mistress. Lately I have been just using her real name with mistress...good morning mistress Nicole.

She calls me “my gorgeous” or “my pet”