Do you and your partner have an actual contract?

My Lady likes us having a contract
and I do understand why and I am happy for us to have one and Iwas a willing participant itn drawing it up and keeping it up to date.

for myself I'm not so bothered two simple rules work for me

1) My Lady is in complete control of everything
2) In the event of any disputes see rule 1

 

We have a chastity agreement as a powerpoint presentation, completely with graphics.

 

I keep thinking for getting one..but my mistress say no...
I also ask can we get exact time for my release in calendar..so i can keep focused...she just say you should just focused on me...not on my properti..
So yeah we are just chastity couple without contract and rule...

 

Initially, my wife and I negotiated a fairly detailed contract for six months, followed by two six-month extensions. (See my blog for the contract.) When the second extension expired, she refused to sign another. Instead, she informed me that she was taking total control of my penis. She would be making the rules from then on, and she didn’t want to be constrained by a contract. Over the past several years, she has gradually tightened her control. She eventually decided to eliminate penis play and orgasms altogether. I wear my device all the time, and it has been almost two years since she released me for an orgasm. There will be no more.

 

Do you guys have a nice draft?
I never signed a contract with my partner but I would like to to try it.

 

We have a contract that stated the basics of our relationship and shaped it's foundation. By now we rarely look at it because things have gotten into their own flow and we're both content and able to tackle any issue that arises. But it's there if we need it for some reason.

 

I have posted our old contract in my blog: https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/in-my-wifes-service.7678/page-2
I will try to copy it here tomorrow.

 

Overnight, I checked but could not find a paper or electronic copy of our old contract. We have moved our household twice since I posted the contract on my blog, and my wife was not in favor of keeping copies around. Plus, the contract no longer serves a purpose for us. It can be accessed at the link I provided in the preceding post. I decided not to copy it here because of its length. Look at posts #33–#35 on the linked page. Post #32 provides some context.

Rereading the contract, I realize I had forgotten how detailed it was. It was a good contract, but it became irrelevant when my wife decided she would unilaterally make all the rules. In particular, Section F (Additional Provisions) is out of date: (1) I am no longer shaved because she enjoys playing with my pubic hair; (2) I am not milked because I regularly lose seminal fluid when she plays with my testicles so much; (3) I am only released for some medical appointments and travel; and (4) I do not have an emergency key. In addition, there is no longer a mechanism for me to provide input into my wife’s decisions.

I was mistaken when I said my wife took total control after two six-month extensions of our original contract. The contract I posted on my blog was the first extension (or second contract), and it was not renewed.

 

would you share it with me?

 

I could certainly understand how at least drafting a contract would help you both understand and communicate your needs and desires in a relationship. But I can also see how as you actually live a FLR, that the contract becomes less important.

 

Used to.

But now she just locks me up when she wants and I’m her slave when I’m locked.

No contract needed.

 

Yes, we have a contract signed by both of us. First draft in 2010, latest draft signed 10-1-21.