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    #1 Nicholascage13579, Dec 28, 2019
    I’m new to male chastity (about eight weeks) I have a CB6000S and also a holy trainer (regular and nano) but I’m having the same issue with all of them. When I put any device on they feel quite comfortable but after moving around walking or sitting, the bottom of the ring moves forward causing the skin around my testicles to go as tight as a drum and the bottom of the ring causes a great deal of pain like a painful burning sensation as it digs into my sack. I have to frequently hold the bottom of the ring and pull the skin through which only gives me temporary relief until the ring moves forward again. I’ve tried various ring sizes. The larger let my testicles slip through and the smaller seem too tight. Does anyone have a solution as it’s causing me to only be able to wear either of these devices for short period. I think both models are copies so I don’t know if that makes much difference. Thanks in advance.
     
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    #2 I LOVE my Choice!, Jan 3, 2020
    Hey there!

    May I please ask..... How tight is TOO tight.....? Can you describe that please...?

    Also... how's the fit of the cage....?

    Kindest regards

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    #3 MissyB, Jan 3, 2020
    Getting the right fit, for both ring and gap between cage and ring, can be very hard for some men. others have suggested using some lotion, or lube on that area to help. You might consider another cage style too.
     
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    #4 Nicholascage13579, Jan 3, 2020
    Too tight is when it’s just not possible to keep the device on for more than 10 minutes due to it being painful. The fit of the cb6000s is a perfect fit but the rings on this are more uncomfortable than the HT
     
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    #5 Nicholascage13579, Jan 3, 2020
    Thank you for your help. I’m not sure what other cages to try as they all seem similar. Maybe I need to give the HT more time to adjust. If I knew of another that would work I woul definately get one.
     
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    #6 collaredhubby, Jan 4, 2020
    Consider the gap. Specifically, the gap between the cage and the base ring on the CBxxxx series of devices can be adjusted back and forth using different locking pins. You may not have the right gap. I would recommend going to a custom device site, like Mature Metal, and reading their instructions on measuring for a custom device and possibly even ordering some measuring rings. This isn't to say you should necessarily buy a custom belt but the measuring advice they give crosses to finding the right sized device for you. You measure yourself and take your measurements to the products that you consider buying and/or translate them to the device you currently have and use them to help find the right fit for you.

    Also, consider that not all guys work well with ball trap devices and a full belt style chastity may be a better option as these don't always incorporate a ball trap function but produce similar chastity results. Hope this helps.
     
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    #7 Nicholascage13579, Jan 4, 2020
    Thank you for taking the time to give advice. I’m using a holy trainer so there’s no adjustment. I used the cb6000s but all rings and variations of spacers are still burning. I’ll look into a custom device. Thanks
     
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    #8 Kate Medova, Jan 4, 2020
    Anything but metal was a problem for me. Plastic and whatever it is holy trainer profess to use tends to pull. A good fitting stainless steel device (and a little perseverance) was the only solution that worked for me.
     
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    #9 Nicholascage13579, Jan 4, 2020
    Thank you
     
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    #10 Bear20, Jan 4, 2020
    I have had this same issue, the skin just at the base goes tight and burns. When you pull the skin it feels like its tearing. GAP is the answer, once that is correct you are set. I tried lube, lotion, powder. It all worked for a bit.
     
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    #11 Skmr89, Jan 4, 2020
    I wear a birdlocked neo. Really comfortable all silicone just the tube is too big for me flaccid and a little bulky with pants
     
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    #12 Wrangler, Jan 8, 2020
    I have had a similar problem. If this happens do you need more gap or less?
    I have found too much gap from one cage, and it can be easily slipped off. Maybe i just need to find something in between?
     
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    #13 Nicholascage13579, Jan 8, 2020
    Hi Wrangler, I finally found something that for me stops the burning. I wrapped toilet paper around the bottom part of the ring and Ive had my cage on for 24hours with no discomfort. I’m not sure whether the toilet paper is acting as a slight cushion or if it’s because the plastic is not in contact with my skin but it’s working. I read somewhere that as plastic is is made from petroleum, this may cause irritation. I may now try a steel device or an authentic HT as this is made from a Bio Resin and doesn't contain petroleum. I don’t know if this will work for you but it has for me. I had to increase the ring size to allow for the TP taking up space.
     
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    #14 Cumschot, Jan 8, 2020
    II have that problem too, have now bought a ball streamer to stretch the balls. Hopefully this works.
     
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    #15 Nicholascage13579, Jan 8, 2020
    I haven’t tried a ball stretcher but I may need to as I have really tight balls
     
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    #16 uranus, Jan 14, 2020
    Can you please let us know if the ball stretcher works for you ?
    Thank you !
    Oh, if you have a link that shows how to stretch them without pushing too much ?
    If not I am pretty sure I can find online.
     
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    #17 Nicholascage13579, Jan 14, 2020
    Will do
     
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    #18 krystalasbaby, Jan 14, 2020
    I tried various ones as well. I too have a very small ball sack. For me i actually found a cheap knock off with the ring that fit just right and the cage closer to the ring. The only time i may have an issue is when it gets extremely cold in the winter the the ball sack will shrink more and still pull thro. Happens maybe1x or 2x during a real cold snap
     
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    #19 LockedN8, Jan 14, 2020
    I think there could be several problems, @Nicholascage13579.

    The ring may be too tight, in which case change to the next size up and use a waist belt to support the weight. I have found this solution has made a huge difference: from being constantly in pain (burning sensation, tightness, ball ache pain....) to being able to wear my cage for days on end.

    There might also be a problem with some metal rings that may cause an allergic reaction. If they are not made from surgical grade steel they may contain nickel which can cause problems for many people. Cheap imports from China etc cannot be guaranteed to be non-allergenic so one solution is to have a custom made device from a reputable manufacturer.
     
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    #20 Nicholascage13579, Jan 14, 2020
    Can you
     
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    #21 Nicholascage13579, Jan 14, 2020
    Can you tell me which device you bought. Thank you
     
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