Anyone else cringe when you see this word?

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    Clitty. Omg just writing it made me cringe.

    Look, I have gender issues of my own, and certainly not belittling anyone that feels feminine, or even wants to rename their junk...but clitty? For some reason it’s like nails in a chalkboard.

    I think it’s mostly the “ty” at the end. It makes it sound less adult, and more like an adjective like salty or hairy. The other connotation is small, like cutie or itty or bitty.

    I know I’m in the minority but ya know I’ve been around women my whole life and have never once heard them refer to their clit as clitty. I don’t know, for me it sounds like less than or inferior. Probably because of the context I see it in so much. I get it, your small and isn’t much bigger than a clit. Trust me, I know where your coming from, I’m pretty small myself. It seems like it’s used as a humiliating word, which to be honest shouldn’t be. Clit I get, but clitty?

    There are plenty of humiliating words for a small penis, can we please find one that isn’t marginalizing someone else’s genitals?

    I might be over sensitive about this, some things just rub me the wrong way, and man this is one of them.
     
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    Well that is certainly something that you don't want to rub the wrong way.
     
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    I also have found it a bit ridiculous, but didn't give that a second thought until you raised the point
     
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    I find that word to be extremely annoying.I certainly will not use it
     
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    I may have used that word in posts here. I will refrain from doing that again
     
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    It is your choice.But it really is quite frankly a vile word
     
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    I see that now and do not wish to offend
     
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    I have not use it but it dont really upset me if somebody did.

    giggle. :)
     
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    I’m not trying to curb or guilt someone into doing something, was just an observation. I’m me and I certainly don’t expect people to conform.

    I was just throwing it out there, as I said I am probably the minority on this one lol
     
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    You didnt guilt me. You made me realize that word isn't appropriate here.
     
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    How unusual to persuade someone on the internet ;)
     
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    I also find it cringe worthy. To me, it's more pathetic than offensive, and I feel a little sad for the person who talks about themselves in that way. Thankfully, I don't think my wife would ever want me to adopt this sort of self humiliation.
     
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    Wow - I simply love your "clitty-eruption"! :D

    But just a little bit more serious: As much as I tend to understand anyone's request/interest for/in some feminization :D (and as much as I still can laugh about posts described as "feeling feminized - and just to prove that, someone's shoving his/her fully grown megaboner almost into the camera:p)... I can't stand that term myself.
    I have seen really tiny penises (and pics of those in abundance) - and they really don't need an additional linguistic diminutive (if that's at least kind of a term?) - one can see how small they are without that!
    And I can understand the "this-is-not-a-penis-anymore"-thinking... but let's face it: it's only thinking.
    Maybe we should start a contest about finding a better term?
     
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    And without a single reference to nazis! :)
     
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    THIS! I totally understand there is a wide range out there, and would never really call someone out on the above. But since we are talking general thoughts here and not one person in particular, I’ll add that I never really understood the “I’m a feminized sissy and here is my cock to prove it” post myself.

    To the OP. I guess I semi-cringe when I see “Clitty”. I don’t like it and I don’t think it’s funny or cute, but I’ve seen it so often now I don’t let it raise my BP.

    Also, I do very much appreciate what you (and others) said about NOT trying to force others into you way of thinking.
     
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    I also find it very annoying. It doesn't help that it's usually used by attention seeking "me me me!" subs.
     
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    I don’t use it. I think the word is used most commonly in the ‘sissy’ culture. Many in the culture don’t consider themselves men or women. So that word is often used to describe the sissy penis. My wife will refer to her penis as my clit. But never clitty. It’s meant to remind me that I don’t have a penis any longer. As she owns it and and can call it as she wishes.
     
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    It is understandable that certain words rub you the wrong way. Would it upset you if a woman used the word clitty? Or is it only when men/trans people use it?
     
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    Yes I cringe when I see that word and the first thing I think of that this is pure wank fodder and written by someone who is more into the the world of fantasy than reality.
     
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    Hahaha I don’t know how many times I’ve read that word but literally have to not say it in my head. I suppose it would be different if it were a woman saying it about herself but the fact that it’s always a dude definitely makes it very cringeworthy :) well done @Nicoftime calling out what we are all thinking lol
     
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    Whatever.

    It's a cock, mate!

    It may be big, and it may be small.

    I've seen sissies with a cock big enough to make them a porn star.

    I've seen 'bulls' with cocks most woman would consider small.

    I have come across intersex folk with a small cock.

    But if there is an urethra running through it, then its a cock.

    But I've no right to tell anybody else to do what I say.

    Unless they're wearing my collar or cage.

    Guy
     
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    It’s a ridiculous word and so inappropriate to describe a cock.

    I will never, ever use that word.
     
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    +1000

    I don’t like it either.

    At the same time, I don't want to judge people too harshly for using it, or for the sissy kink in general.
    I don’t think they mean harm, it is more the product of a culture, and the gender mess it’s currently carrying...

    But in the end, I don’t like that in our culture, if you want to be degraded and humiliated, and feel like less of a person, then you feminize.
    It says a lot about how we as male have looked down on women as inferiors for centuries.
    That sucks.
    Because it’s wrong, and because it’s stupid !

    I do partial CD, (gender bending), for the opposite reasons. I wear skirts and heels, to look prettier for sure, but more importantly to feel softer and kinder, and drop that predatory archetype that I was raised to embrace as a man!

    I want to be more feminine, not to be less of a man, but to be more of a man.
     
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    I've been around 'boys who wanna be girls' for more than 30 years, since the early days of Muir Academy.

    Many want a role where they can be accepted as a woman around other people.

    Being a housemaid is one such role, they can be accepted for what they do.

    I would hope that the 'girls' who come to me to be 'in service' do not feel, and are not, degraded.

    Definitely humiliated sometimes, because it can be fun for those inclined that way.

    I do that to male presenting slaves as well, just in different ways.

    It is not so much 'gender-play' as 'class-play'.

    But I would hope Jemima for instance, feels degraded by what she does!
     
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