FLR and Marriage

25 years of marriage
asked by my Queen
a security for Her (and for me, too) : i can't go away when i want
if you'are afraid, do a marriage with a contract

 

I see no contradiction at all. It is simply a legal union, along with a public display of your devotion to each other.

We know that the FLR which underlies everything will be the framework for a successful marriage based on female control and male obedience and respect.

 

I’m married. She is in charge of everything. It’s a fantastic relationship. I don’t see how marriage runs counter to FLR.

 

If anything, marriage would make an FLR stronger by creating joint ownership of assets.

 

Marriage does not go against FLR. FLR and marriage go together very well.

 

Yep, marriage means you are in deep. I think in a FLR you have to really trust the opinions of your keyholder to share everything with them after marriage. They have a say in almost half of everything you can legally own and do. Society has you wear a small band of metal to signify ownership. The whole idea of marriage to further dominance when you don’t believe in it anymore (like after a divorce), is kind of kinky to me.

It is a big commitment for many but he’s wrong that it would weaken the FLR. It could be a straw man for another reason like how it might change good dynamics you already are enjoying together. Maybe sell it different, would he feel better being your wife in the bedroom? many ways this could double down on the kink to marriage.

 

I think marriage deepens a FLR.

 

I can’t speak for others that were married a long time before introducing FLR, but my wife were pretty much always into all of this stuff, so it was part of our original idea of what our relationship is.

I incorporated a little of it into the vows I wrote, nothing too over the top but she understood.

I think our expectations before getting married secures our marriage to continue to be female led, and our commitment to communicate ensures we will discuss our problems before either of us would ever try to change our dynamic.

I think whatever you two find works for you, communicate that, and the marriage part will take care of itself.

 

Marriage and FLR definitely go together in my opinion-in fact it's more of a case of not getting smug! Our friends relationships don't seem to be as satisfying for most of them!

 

I'd ask my wife but she is enjoying a lie-in this morning while i do the school run (that's a clue though!)

 

Please let us know when it is happening so that we can all send our best wishes to you. He is a very lucky boy to have your love and care.

 

i agree that a FLR goes perfectly with marriage.

 

only two witnesses
no married KH and their sub ?

 

Well if you need witnesses who understand FLR you know where we are

 

it was humour
just to show (to your future husband ) that other subs are married
and happy of it

 

It’ll be 34 years for us very soon and 9 for being Locked . Our FLR relationship has grown stronger and stronger since my Lockup our marriage has also gotten stronger

Marriage is a bonding of two people , three if your religious, how those people live their lives is up to them.
Who does the dishes
Who cooks the meals
Who cuts the grass
Who works outside the house
Who controls the bank account

Your relationship can work perfectly no matter how you desire who does what including An FLR arrangement. Also ever FLR arrangement is different and customized to the people involved, you make the rules by what works for you just like a marriage. It’s an arrangement based on Love and Commitment towards each other.

If your relationship is built on Love “You Make It Work “ the specific details aren’t important.

After 34 years our marriage has gone through many changes Chastity and FLR are our lifestyle now but no matter what the future holds we know we’ll still be together as One.

Just my 2 cents worth. Good Luck

 

An interesting experiment is to look at relationship advice problem columns and also read the advice given and the comments below the line-again not wanting to be smug and complacent but when I read them I can't help feeling that everyone is 'doing it wrong'

 

I know what you mean. There is so much more communication in a loving FLR, and so much more openness. Problems which do arise can be quickly dealt with, and reconciliation afterwards is amazing for both parties.

 

'The Guardian' in the U.K relationship and love and sex columns are revealing-half the problems mentioned would cease to exist in FLR let alone be an ongoing issue that forces you to turn to agony aunts as they are apparently unresolvable between the couple

 

We read the same paper

You are absolutely right. Once a man has let down his guard, and put aside his ego, by saying that in his relationship he accepts gratefully being submissive to his Mistress / KH / Partner, he has removed many of the potential problems in a single stroke.