My wife has made my cock completely numb

My wife and I have been married over over 15 years. We have a fantastic like together and have always had a very active sex life. We have always had sex a min 3 to 4 times a week even after years of marriage.

About 2 years ago Linda approached me about making some dramatic changes to our sex life. We both have always been out there a bit - public sex,anal for both of us, videos, really anything was never off limits.

So when she approached me about a dramatic change I was up for it.

Linda told me that she wanted to become my mistress and decide when I was allowed to cum. I thought this was a fun idea.

It started with her not letting me cum once or so a week. We would be having sex and she would order me to pull out and finish her off with her strap on.

I didn't mind in fact I began to enjoy it.

Over the 1st 6 months it increased to twice a week I wasnt allowed to cum to only been allowed to cum once a week.

By the end of the 1st year I was now only cumming once a mth ever though we were now having sex most days. The more my wife wouldn't let me cum the better she enjoyed it and the more we had sex.

She said she enjoyed the power of not letting me cum just as much as her orgamase.

After the 12 mth mark she told me she wanted to increase my frustration levels.

Linda told me that I was not allowed to masterbate any more. I used this as my relief. I would masterbate at work or when Linda was not home.

I was not sure at 1st as I was not cumming much from our sex life but Linda said if i really loved her I would agree.

After a week of thinking about it I agreed.

It was very hard to adjust as I had gone from cumming 3 to 4 times a week to only once a mth. I have to admit that I did sometimes cheat when I was very horny.

About mth 3 my wife came home early and caught me masterbating. She was very upset with me and we didnt have sex at all that week.

I said to Linda I was sorry and would do anything to show her my loyally.

The next week she said she had a way to ensure my loyalty.

I said what ever it was I would do.

She then pulled out a thing called an Elastrator. I asked her what it was and how it worked.

She told me that since she didnt trust me she wanted to ensure I didnt cum.

Linda said she would put bands at the base of my cock with the view to damage my nerves.

I asked Linda what would happen. She told me that the bands would get my cock to what she called a stage of numbness. Linda said that I would still be able to get an erection but would not be able to cum.

I thought that this sounded ok and agreed to a 6 mth banding session.

We started slowly with

3 bands of 10 mins every 3 days.

The effect of this was only very small numbness and I could still cum of I tried hard enough. However the sensitivity had started to reduce.

After 2 weeks Linda told me my trail period was over and now the real banding would start. We then moved to daily sessions of

3 x 30 mins session in morning and 3 x 30 min sessions at night.

This lasted 4 days. By day 4 I was completely numb and had no feeling in my cock.

Linda continued to band me for a further 3 days. By day 7 my cock was so numb I could no longer feel it.

We were still having daily sex but now I couldn't even tell when my cock was inside Linda.

Since I was so horny I was still getting erections but I had absolutely no feeling and had no chance of cumming as the only way i would know we were having sex as i could feel my hips moving.

After Linda got me to this stage we only needed the heavy banding 2 to 3 times a week.

So it's now been 6 months since I was allowed to cum and I now dont even try to masterbate as it is a waste of time. I cant feel my cock in my hand so it is impossible to cum.

As for Linda she is loving it. She gets off daily and says she enjoys it more knowing I won't but able to cum.

For me I have actually come to enjoy the frustration. I am always horny but cannot do anything about it. My cock is now so numb I dont even feel urine passing through my urethra.

I never have wet dreams as dont have the nerve mustle for it. Linda milks me once a mth for prostate health.

When I am milked I see the cum coming out but there is no feeling at all.

So we are now here and Linda now wants to take it to the next level.

Linda tells me she misses the feeling of me cuming inside her and has a solution. I thought she was going to start letting me cum again by stopping the banding.

However she has told me she wants to bring home a friend from work. Linda has promised me nothing has happened yet but she wants him to become her lover.

I asked what it meant to me and Linda has said that she still wants to band me as she still doesn't want me to cum.

She says that she will only have sex with him when I was present but I would have to stay in other room.

So I need to decide if I should let Linda do this. Linda says if I love her enough I will grant her wishes. As for me Linda says I will no longer be allowed to have sex with her and because I cant feel it anyway I should accept it

I just want everyone thoughts as to weather I should grant Linda her wishes

Thank you

 

Hi my post is not a fantasy. I can send you photos or videos of my banded cock if you want as proof. I could also do a video of my masterbating with no results if you wish.
Leave me a message and I send you evidence

 

Hi Justchris78 I do like your suggestion of multiple and different lovers as this will help me get over the worry of Linda loving someone else. It will then be only about Linda getting off. This I am ok with as I want her to he happy and satisfied.

I will ask her about me being used as well but I think she will say no as her main goal is my complete sexual frustration.

I know a lot of people will not understand why I agree to this but you really need to know what it is like to always be horny and know you cannot get any relief. You cant cheat and cum by yourself as there is no feeling in your cock.

Also to make Linda happy is my ultimate goal.

Now I just need to decide if I can live with her having sex with someone else

 

I am leaning towards saying yes but maybe as you suggested at least let me watch. I will suggest this will increase my sexual frustration. With you been used can you give me some more details so I can suggest that as well.

Thsnk you

 

Thanks for the comment. It looks like most people are saying that. Running at 80 percent yes.

I have showed Linda and we have agreed if final vote after 7 days is 75 percent plus we will do it.

 

If you email me at jamesattard567@gmail.com I will send you photos tomight

Cheers James

 

Email sent.

Have you voted. If not please vote

 

The banding is an on going thing so that's why the continue numbness. If we were to stop it then there would be a chance that in time I could cum again. However that's not what Linda wants.

Her enjoyment is the fact that I can't feel any pleasure.

That's why we dont do cages. When we started this we were still having regular sex but Linda got off on the fact that I couldn't feel myself inside her and basically received no relief.

With a cage if we had sex I would receive enjoyment and could cum.

Also Linda doesn't want me imponent as again it's about me being sexually frustrated.

What she loves is that a am always sexually excited but she knows even when I am by myself I cant make myself cum.

If I was in a cage you can still cum.

Now Linda wants to go to the final stage of removing any sexual contact to increase my frustration and hence that's why she wants to add someone to our lives.

For me living in complete sexual frustration is in one way very enjoyable as I am horny all the time. However I do miss the sexual relief you get from cumming.