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    Sorry if this is the wrong place! I'm looking for a toy suggestion. Wife would like a vibrator toy, but one of the non-penetration style toys. Maybe like a wand or something like that? PIV, or anything 'IV' for that matter isn't an option at the moment. Any suggestions? We both have little experience with toys in general, so beginner friendly is gonna be better than some tricked out experts only kind of thing, if that even exists.
     
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    Hitachi Magic Wand. It is pretty powerful so I recommend getting a dimmer switch to go with it so you can adjust the vibrations.
     
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    Hitachi Magic Wand is the Cadillac of vibrators -- has changed the lives of millions of women for the better :) My wife still says (21 years later) it's the best gift I ever got her.
     
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    Yes the magic wand or there are some other similar ones, but we have been using the magic for years and it works wonders for Mistress.
     
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    You can buy them or at least copies of them with speed controls.... to be honest I thought most women already have one.
     
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    We own two Hitachi Magic Wands. They are magical <3
     
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    The Magic Wand is the only way my wife gets off any more.
     
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    If you have two wands, she can give you real frustration, secure you up then she can remove your cage and then take the two wands and then put your penis head in between the two wands, all I can say is wow. Keep you on edge doing this then lock you back up with no relief.
     
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    Every woman should have a Hitachi Wand. Powerful....unrelenting....and can "keep it up" all day long...unlike a man.
     
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    Well.... there is clearly a winner here. We ordered one last night and will see how it goes.
     
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    I forgot to mention in my initial post....that there are also many wonderful attachments for the Hitachi Wand. In my opinion the best is the "fluttering kiss dual stimulation."
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    One of the reviews....states

    Fly her to the moon and let her moan among the stars.
    This is the best wand attachment we have ever found. We have used Hitachi wands for years and tried dozens of attachments but they were not very well thought out and only minorly effective. This attachment is great if you like orgasms that will curl you up in a ball while whimpering and moaning in ecstasy. My wifes eyes roll back in her head and she can't even muster the coordination to kiss me. It's almost like she's got her finger in a light socket. Just the way I like it.
     
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    Since we're giving advice, I'll note that rather than a g-spot stimulator attachment you can use your fingers. As I've gotten to know the sensitive areas of my KH's vagina the combination is her favorite "fly to the moon and moan among the stars" alternative to PIV (also with the wand). She is blessed with a reliably tower full g-spot (presumably, well-developed long legs of her clit) and two fingers inside can more accurately find and manipulate those structures than an attachment. And the amazing experience it Bri gs her makes it one of my favorite things in life, too (my favorite when she is leaving me caged :)
     
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    I bought my wife a celebrator http://www.ultimatecelebrator.com/

    She used it the first time on our way back upstate from Philadelphia and she squirted all over the floor. She didn’t even know she could do that. I almost lost my shit in the drivers seat!

    It’s small and discreet like a elecotoothbrush. Haven’t tried the wand
     
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    Looks essentially the same as an Eroscillator, which is essentially the same as an electric toothbrush. Mrs has a similar reaction. A very different "buzz" to the wand.
     
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    We have a”doxy”, it supposed to be even more powerful than a hitachi. I think we e only had it on high once, so the extra power probably isn’t necessary.

    She loves it, and when it wears out we will replace it.
     
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    We got a Doxy while on a trip in Europe when we realized we'd forgotten the Hitachi. My wife said it was similar, but she prefers the Hitachi. She hasn't articulated why.
     
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    Like most everyone else is saying the Hitachi Magic wand. My wife refers to it as “her boyfriend” She likes to taunt me and tell me how much better her boyfriend can make her cum. She likes me to document her session on video while I am caged so I am able to watch it at a later time......still while caged.
     
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    Another vote for the Hitachi Magic Wand. But be aware -- she'll fall in love with it. Even in those rare times I am permitted entry she uses it on her clot, and it vibrates on me too, but I am required to hold back while she spasms and cums continuously.
     
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    +1 :+1:
     
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    My wife/KH enjoys the Hitachi Wand. We also use a strapon with a vibrating cock ring that she really enjoys. It was a little difficult to find but we found a store in NYC carrying a 6" by 2 /1/2 inch dildo with balls. On more then one occasion, she slipped that into the harness I was wearing, slid on the vibrating cock ring, lubed it up and slid on it. I have actually seen her eyes roll up into her head when the first big O hit.
     
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    Just by way of fun update: It arrived and sat on the counter and then the bedside table for a week or so, unused. Then one night, we were in bed and I think she was having trouble falling asleep. Without anything in the way of explanation or even a word spoken, she reached over to the nightstand, picked it up and turned it on. I was locked up, so I did nothing but watch. I was shocked at how fast she came! She then quietly put it away and just rolled over and fell asleep.

    The next night, she grabbed it as soon as she got into bed. Same thing... I stayed silent and watched. She came, and then was quickly asleep.

    The next night I thought for sure she would forget about it. I went to bed before her, but I woke up when she was almost in bed. We talked briefly after she got in bed, but she was clearly tired. She gave me a quick goodnight kiss, and then said 'Love you, bedtime' which is her code word for 'stop talking, don't try anything, I really just want to sleep.' She then rolled over, grabbed the wand and pleasured herself.

    At this point I think we are at like 5 nights in a row. I'm sure for some people that isn't crazy, but for her this is unprecedented. I haven't asked her about it, she generally doesn't like talking about sex stuff, but I'm so curious to hear what she thinks. I'm probably projecting here, but I swear last night she eagerly grabbed it before she even got in bed. As for me, I've been locked up the entire time.
     
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    The Doxy 3 is very nice and has multiple attachment options. The attachments are threaded they do not slip over the head. Great product, Wife loves it.

    https://doxymassager.com/
     
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    The newer rechargeable Magic Wand has more speeds and modes. My wife used it once and said that I can throw away the other older one! She has come up to her record of 18 times over a few hours while i was at work.
     
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    I’m sure the O is releasing chems in her brain that allow her to relax and de-stress, thus allowing her to fall asleep quickly. If that’s the case this will either be a regular routine or will go on until she becomes accustomed to the experience and no longer gets what she need from it. Sounds like your usefulness in that department has come to an end (for better or worse).
     
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