saw someone calling chastity CBT on a face book group. I disagreed that it was grouped with CBT. Anyone have any thoughts on this?
It’s not CBT in my book. There is no torture that I see or feel. Maybe a little psychological but not physical.
She was suggesting that she had great amounts of experience. I just had disagree with her. I don’t think chastity is in anyway CBT.
I wouldn’t classify it as such in the greater sense, but do agree there are elements of it, especially during a teasing session. One of the things my kh loves, is seeing it strain against the cage. Watching it weep, turning shades of purple from the erection attempt. Balls squeezed by the pressure, moans from me when I can hardly take any more, and the marks left after its removal. That certainly is right up there with cbt, but isn’t in the same realm as stepping on them with heels or slapping them with a paddle.
Her point was that wearing the device was torture for some. I disagreed. But, we are a group who live chastity. I think for most of us it isn’t a game.
In my opinion it’s kinda could be in a slight way I guess the torture of the helpless erection but when someone says cbt or what I consider in my experiences cbt I think of stuff that causes pain to the c and b So I guess overall my answer is no it’s not cbt. cbt in my mind is all the things that are done to me causing some kinda pain or discomfort to that area! Which I throughly enjoy lol
It obviously can be to some users as they use spiked cages and anti pull-out devices, but to others it is more...... a change of attitude. The ones that use it for cbt are usually short term in chastity.
I find it's helpful when I subject husband to CBT. We have a zapper and a couple of different things to plug in it. There's these loopy thingys and it's easier to loop one around each of his testicles when he's locked in a cage.. There's another loopy thing I can do with them where I put one around him behind the base ring and the other around his scrotum. If I decide to torture his penis, though, I do have to take off the cage. Usually I leave the ring there, though.
As stated.... some of the chastity devices with Kali’s Teeth and suchlike are indeed akin to a form of cbt. Doesn’t matter if it is a requirement from the partner of the person caged or whether the guy wears it himself because he wants to. If he gets a stiffy, it WILL cause pain. That is the whole point of torture - To cause pain. General wearing of a chastity device is nothing like cbt and is never intended to be. What merits a good cage? Judging by many here, it’s the type one forgets one is wearing... ie, it’s comfortable - hardly cbt material!
It's a great question! Is it that chastity is under the umbrella of CBT? It *is* a type of psychological torture... Is it a Venn diagram? CBT and Chastity overlap, definitely, especially if you use literal torture chastity devices. Is it like the difference between Dominance/submission and Sadism/Masochism? They are often conflated - "oh I'm a Dominant so I must be Sadistic." They're not the same thing - many D/s relationships are purely about power exchange, and the S/M side, if they have one is, can be unrelated. (Or the Dominant might want their submissive to flog them...). Chastity and CBT are two things that have some things in common, but are 'technically' unrelated. I don't actually know which answer I prefer. My toy happens to be a bit of a pain slut, so I engage in CBT. If he weren't, I wouldn't.
when she say "no i will not open it today" when im on very horny level and my erection is not comfortable on my device..thats cbt but when i play mobile game and i dont even feel my device on my penis, thats not cbt
CBT is not something I'm remotely interested, but I know for some it's an integral part of the scene.