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    hi everyone. So my wife (and new friend) are really interested in chastity for me. I have a CB-6000 but I can’t wear it long. I’ve really been looking at the new Holy Trainer v3 in either the nano or nub. But I don’t know how it compares to the Bon4. I really would like a long term thing but just can’t afford a Jail Bird. Help?
     
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    Don't know about the Bon4, but the I'm miles happier in an HT than a CB.
     
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    What kind of HT do you have? If it’s the v3 do you have experience with the nano or nub?
     
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    HT v3 small... 50mm.

    I would try a nano, but haven't.
     
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    Just my preference from general design and comfort.
     
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    Depends...

    Bon4m micro is metal and easy to clean... she can lock you in and forget about tit for a while.

    HT is very comfortable but much more tediousto maintain clean...
     
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    What’s the security on the Bon4m?
     
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    What do you mean?
    No cage are fully secured... unless full belt or pa.

    I never used bon4m mysel so can't comment on it's security. There is a tread on this in the devices review section...

    My impression is that it would be comparable to ht
     
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    I think I might look into the Bon4 micro. I want something that’ll be more long term.
     
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    If your looking for plastic then the HT is by far the most comfortable plastic device out there. But like the others were saying, without a PA, its security is very lax.

    For Steel. Many cheap Chinese devices are very inexpensive on Ebay for between $15-25. But again security is about the same without a Piercing. I find steel to be more comfortable and easier to clean.

    I got pierced back in May and I am now in a custom RC device that is 99.9% secure. See my pics.
     
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    I don’t know if I’m ready for a PA. I’m really scared about it.

    I’m really overwhelmed with all the options. It’s always discouraging every time I do this.

    How good are the Chinese models?
     
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    I was a bit scared myself before getting pierced, obviously getting a needle through your equipment will make any man shiver. My wife was the one who actually suggested it (as a joke at first then got more serious.) She was looking to get a nose and ear piercing herself so I suggested I just bite the bullet and do it. We made the appointment with a professional piercer in our area. I was very nervous when we arrived. We waited like 20 minutes until I was called back. My wife and I went back together and the gentleman was very nice and told me to lay down on the piercing bench and drop my shorts and underwear.

    My wife held my hand and snickered when she saw my junk because It had shrivled like never before (it knew what was coming.) I started breathing really deep. The piercer said "Just relax, it will be over before you know it."

    He grabbed a tray and put some gloves on. He looked over my shaft and glans to inspect everything to make sure all was good. "Looks fine, we can do it."

    He suggested I close my eyes and not watch as he's seen guys jump and fudge it up but would talk me through everything.

    He grabbed a marker and marked the bottom of my glans right at the frenium and to the left. He then said I would have a bit of discomfort as he put the receiving tube in my urethra. This was very wierd as I have never been into sounding. He lined up the tube......."Okay, Deep breath." I inhaled deep, squeezed my wifes hand ...... Stinging pain in my glans for about five seconds as he pieced the needle through the tissue and ...........gone. After that no pain.

    It wasn't as bad as i thought. Aftercare was a bit of a bitch but I can go into that further if you want.

    It was definitely worth it IMO.
     
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    Chines models are just that, cheap. But they do just a good of job as a plastic device.
     
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    i'd consider doing the PA, it really isn't that big a deal. Then a lori #19 through the bars of what ever you like. Easy, cheaper and 100% effective.
     
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    @IronMuffinSlayer -- I have experience with the enclosed plastic cages, the Bon4Msmall and the inexpensive Chinese cages. My views, respectively: the enclosed plastic cages are stink traps, very hard to keep clean, and if worn for even 48 hours can cause skin rot; the Bon4Msmall (haven't worn the Micro, which is new) is quite secure if the proper back ring is worn (the back rings are round not oval which makes them a little less comfortable), but it's heavier and a little more difficult to hide; the inexpensive Chinese cages have been my favorite for long-term chastity, small, light and tight, with oval and ergonomic back rings, and secure when worn with smallest back ring you can accommodate to. I wear the A273 most of the time, the A226 secondarily, and the Bon4M when I need some extra space skin drying/healing or want to feel the tug of the extra weight. See my photos for all of the above.
     
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    Are the Bon4m’s uncomfortable? They look like the edges are sharp and rough compared to other polished finish devices.
     
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    The cage is wonderful. The rings are not rounded and can be irritable, but I think that also is an element of their security.
     
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    I read a review from Denying Thumper that says the inside of the cage is a bit rough and leaves you sore. I’m just scared of the same thing happening as the CB-6000 with not being able to use it long term cause it’s uncomfortable.
     
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    That has not been my experience.
     
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    Ok...if no one is going to say something I will.

    Iron muffin slayer??!! I gotta ask where the heck that came from cause it is funny as all get out!!
     
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    The joke started out as PussySlayer69 juat to be obnoxious. But Im working on an Iron Man genderbend cosplay so i was thinking Iron Maiden. But that’s a band. So I just sort of combined them. Oh and I do love muffins. Sorry if that explanation was long winded with no good ending.
     
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    She may forget about tit …. I still think about her tit(s) all the time... locked or not
     
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