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    #1 Mistress Hev, Sep 17, 2018
    Hi all very new here , held keys since the 15th! Any advice greatly recieved
     
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    #2 Joey love, Sep 17, 2018
    Welcome to the mansion
     
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    #3 Guest 3729, Sep 17, 2018
    Welcome!
     
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    #4 LesterBallard, Sep 17, 2018
    welcome. Read up - there's lots of threads here offering advice. Any specific questions, ask away
     
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    #5 Mistress Hev, Sep 17, 2018
    What good tips to being a good key holder
     
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    #6 Rectrix, Sep 17, 2018
    +Make it about you, and keep him desiring you.
     
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    #7 New to cage, Sep 18, 2018
    Absolutely, make it about you and what you want. Whose Jey do you hold?. Husband, friend, random stranger? Whose idea was chastity? Give us some details about you and your relationship. It may help others provide info
     
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    #8 manintyres, Sep 18, 2018
    A very warm welcome
     
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    #9 tomf_22033, Sep 18, 2018
    Welcome
    Have fun
    Don’t be too serious about yourself
    Have fun
    Don’t be to hard on him(s)
    Have fun
    Don’t give in too easily
    Have fun
    Keep him guessing
    Have fun

    And don’t be afraid to ask questions and share what you do and learn here.

    Oh and have fun!
     
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    #10 DonnaSue, Sep 18, 2018
    Welcome, @Mistress Hev ! Don't permit him to "top for the bottom", make it entirely about your pleasure and interests and he will come to the conclusion that satisfying you the the only way for him to get what he wants. It takes a while being locked and controlled to finally come to that realization, but once that is achieved, the relationship is wonderful for both parties!
     
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    #11 Shepherdsflock, Sep 18, 2018
    Don’t let go of them.
     
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    #12 Joey love, Sep 18, 2018
    Welcome and please keep us updated of your progress
     
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    #13 Norcalguy09, Sep 19, 2018
    Welcome. Many new folks, myself included lately. What brought you to key holding?
     
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    #14 Chat408, Sep 19, 2018
    Welcome to chastity. It is really all about you. Keep it simple and remember that your way is always the right way. Enjoy whatever you like. I started by adding the dates together to let him know how long he would be locked. 1+5=6 day or weeks or months. You can also multiply. That makes it easy on you.
     
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    #15 Rectrix, Sep 19, 2018
    Or you can be totally random, use him when you feel like it, and never let him know when or if he will unlocked.
     
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