Little boys should be heard and not seen

I always wondered about that myself. I have never taken a picture of my penis. Sometimes I go to a site and that is all I see as if their penises are something special. I will hazard a guess that some who post those pictures have exhibitionist tendencies. Could also be a case of self humiliation.

My penis has shrunk so I do not want anyone to see it. In my younger days I had no problem with nudity, nude beaches, group sex, etc.. Now at 67 not a pretty sight. I never found penises to be attractive and neither does my wife so we do not look at them unless we have to.

 

To be honest I don't think the male member is very nice to look at anyway! That's just my opinion! So why take pictures of it? I think some women maybe of opinion that any photos containing a man are penis photos!!! And who am I to disagree.

 

Never understood the obsession with penis pics.

 

I can understand it somewhat. I share some penis pics on other sites, e.g., TheVisualiser.net, which is of course dedicated to the penis...

I like it when women see my tiny dick and laugh. My chastity cage is quite tiny, and so I think anyone who saw that it could hold my penis with some room to spare would find it amusing. Though I certainly don't go showing it off just anywhere or to just anyone. Mostly I put pics up only where they're wanted. And in real life I've rarely flashed or exposed myself publicly, though I have been publicly exposed before, and it was absolutely thrilling.

I also love that every single time my wife sees my penis, caged or not, she giggles or outright laughs and says how tiny it is.

 

I've been a member of CM for ten years and only posted such pics yesterday. So not something done at the drop of a hat. For me it was marking a recent transition to indefinitely locked status after all these years. The album is called NewLife for that reason.

 

I've done this by request in the past but I agree it is "penis centric" and probably inappropriate for most members (who should be our priority). That said I really appreciate pictures of women (tastefully dressed of course) like those you and Ms Amanda often post. Thank you for these gifts!

 

I like to see the different chastity devices one chooses.

 

I have posted several pictures of my beloved on here, mostly all of them are what you describe as ‘dick pics’.
The reason is I enjoy people seeing my dick locked and denied. I like that she is paraded in front of people and emasculated for my pleasure.
Ultimately, it isn’t entirely pictures of my cock on show, we do like to show a little dress up as well.
I think the dominance aspect of them literally doing anything you tell them to and showing it off is also quite pleasurable.
But what are we classifying as dick pics? Does this include the emasculating part with dress up included or are we talking entirely about cocks in cages flapping all over the gallery?
LP

 

I do go through the galleries and look at pictures of the different cages and how they fit. I Look for the pinch points and how everything squeezes out because I have trouble with abrasions and I’ve been looking for a new cage for a while. Some of the photos really help, but a lot are just dick pics. I think as long as they’re in the galleries and you have to go looking for them there’s no harm in that.

 

You are correct, it's about self humiliation and the feeling of being so submissive.

 

I am unfortunately guilty as charged.

The only explanation I can give really is being caught up in the moment. There's a bit of a thrill to be had when first locking and one can get over excited. This being a fetish site I'd never post an actual picture of my face and I didn't even consider sharing something else of personal interest.
I think when I posted mine it was a moment of "Look! I'm doing something fetishy!"
The funny thing is I've never posted an actual dick pick, nor would I ever but somehow that normal thought process did not kick in.... Sense kicked in once the moderator rejected my attempt at a locked cock avatar.

None of this is an excuse, just an attempt at an explanation.

 

a LOCKED penis is a locked penis.

 

1 reason for lockup pictures pictures being shared on here is that there can be limited information on various devices so sharing lockup photos can show potential wearers what a device looks like and how it works.

Those without a keyholder would rightly or wrongly use posting pics as a way of validating there lock status.

Its a complex and controversial subject and rightly so but it also appears not everyone hates lockup pics because I notice a few of mine have picked up a few likes and comments.

I have always been subconscious that not everyone wants to see a plain boring lockup pic so I have tried using photo filters to make them look a bit more artistic and interesting.

 

Years ago I used the gallery for information. Choosing a cage, how it was supposed to fit, expectations, and possible problems.

Once u get a few angles of the same device, normal and attempted erection, you can pretty much get the idea.

As far as the obsession? Boys compare, that won’t change. I imagine some also get a thrill from exposing themselves to the Internet, females that happen to look, and the risk of exposure.

 

note to self: no clitty pix

 

Personally? I don't take or post pics of my junk, locked or otherwise, except in some very specific circumstances.

 

Real men learn active listening skills and empathy to understand when a woman desires feedback verbally. I know I try my best and fail, but try to pick myself up and try again.

Not trying makes you a boy, and as aptly stated boys should be seen ....

As for dick pics ... I honestly don't get it, but I believe if the wife/partner states they want it posted or post themselves (or it is in an album on the profile page) ... that is ok.

But YMMV ....

 

I have a few posted of my device because people ask what device I have, and mine is custom, so there is no other way for them to see it.

Why are my pictures of me wearing it? Because I am always wearing it!

 

It's a male chastity site and a significant number of people are here to learn more. Personally I haven't posted a picture but if it came up and somehow helped in sharing the experience i probably would.

 

I don’t know either. I don’t even like to see my own, much less some other guy’s. I would rather see photos of the smiling faces of keyholders.

 

Well Miss @L-u-c-y you are totally correct. A lot of us are obsessed with pictures of caged cocks. I think part of it is that it gives us a feeling of belonging to a group bigger than just one or two people that we know. I for one have posted pictures of myself in different cages so I’m guilty. That being said the title of this web site is ChastityMansion so haveing pictures of caged cocks should be expected by everyone that’s locked. At least one anyway to show that Yes he has locked up at least once.

We are obsessed but than so are you, you have 60 pictures of yourself in different outfits and what 135 caption pictures. So being obsessed is a major part of this web site and it’s something we’re going to have to learn to live with unless you want to sensor Chastity pics,but that wouldn’t make any sense at all now would it.

I personally like to see the different styles of cages that others wear it gives me ideas on what to buy next just like ladies buying shoes. You can only wear one pair at a time but need way more than that just for style.

 

I have some pics on here, but I've always used them to help others learn about chastity cages in private messages. I made my own cage, so it's different than all the others. The other pics without the cage are for seeing what I had to deal with when I made the cage. It's a very short cage, shorter than what manufacturers were offering at the time I built it.

 

With total respect to Miss Lucy, and nothing less, it's my opinion that men post pictures because they are proud to serve and relinquish control to their Dominant Partner.