How often do you allow or are allowed ruined orgasms?

you very lucky then.

 

In my second month of chastity and orgasms of any descw, ruined or otherwise, are not on the agenda. My guide and inspiration expects total chastity. So that's what I aim to deliver

 

As of this year even ruined o's have been taken off the menu! Apparently Mrs Chaste thinks I probably get to much pleasure from them! Plenty of teasing though just keep those frustration levels up. "I love the look on your face when I stop" she says. I do "leak" a lot especially when I'm pleasing Mrs Chaste. She loves to collect it on her finger and share it with me! Must admit I am enjoying the complete lack of relief, how weird is that? So far no orgasms of any description in 2018. Did she really mean it when she said "you might not cum at all this year"? I'll let you know!

 

I'm not.. is the short answer

For me just like any other kind of orgasm or mere ejaculation you can possible conceive they they have not been allowed by My Mistress and when or IF one is then I will be informed of the how at the time.

All that is not banned is accidental leakage, because that lessens the need to come without diminishing the desire to come. .... much as milking would.

 

About once a month. Since Jan 1, 2018, Ive had 4 orgasms. 3 times, she allowed me to jerk off in front of her. (which she gets a kick out of). Once, when she was in a really good mood she gave me a hand job. She (and therefore we) doesn't do PIV anymore. I please her with my mouth/hands almost every night.

 

Everyone is different you both need to remember that

 

wife ruins mine all the time but I love her for it

 

As our FLM has evolved from exploring and experimenting there has been a lot more structure and almost protocol involved. Early days of chastity were like that...locked for some predefined time period, some form of relief almost on the calendar. Over time the relief has been sporadic at best, duration locked extended. There's no schedule. Longer locked = more of the leaking. And from her perspective that's often "good enough"

 

A ruined O is not something we rarely do unless it's by accident. My Bride loves to edge me over and over again. If I'm lucky, I might get edged as often as 2 or 3 times a week. Other times, nothing or maybe once in a week. She looks at as milking me, but I never achieve a full on orgasm. That is what She likes best.

 

i only has my milking ever 8 weeks now .

 

for me when I started out with my Ex it was every week then with a lot of teasing and CBT added before it then if I was lucky it be a few days a week must mostly weekly thing. but I still do the weekly or longer now since I'm so use to the chastity device. but everyone different and gotta learn what fits them best

 

Unfortunately, or perhaps fortunately, Mistress doesn't allow any commies at all, I do secretly edge myself and deny myself.....and end up using lots of numbing cream....might be interesting to have a ruined one....

 

I'll occasionally ruin myself. No specific frequency.

 

Approximately every 7 days for good prostate health.

 

That's a long time. Mine are about a month apart and that seems long enough!

 

Do you still remain horny and frustrated?

 

By the end of the month the milking is very welcome and i produce a lot of prostate fluid. Afterwards the intensity of frustration reduces for a couple of days then is back to normal. But the milking is essential for me at least to feel comfortable.

 

well its cos nothing come out me the last time and that why.

 

I can't remember my wife even thinking about whether I need an erection, never mind an orgasm. As far as she's concerned, going without means going without.

 

I am teased and denied multiple times every day, but my wife has a thing for ruined orgasms, so she gave me seven ruined orgasms last month. She gave me a full blown orgasm in February, but for some reason it was more like a ruined orgasm. Last November, I had a mind blowing full blown orgasm, and I can't wait for another one of those.

 

About once a week, she calls it a spoiled one, I would prefer no more than 2 a month, but it's not my choice. She allowed me to take a Viagra this morning and while I was surfing the edge, she said "do you want to spoil it for me"? I said NO, but it's not my decision to make. She said OK, let's keep you denied a little while longer. I love my daily tease and deny sessions. Let's not spoil it, Baby Doll.

 

The only time I get one is by accident while being edged. She sees no purpose in giving a ruined orgasm since I do not usually feel a thing and have to ask if I came or not. Too risky to mess around with that.