Cuckoldry leading to chastity

When we still did the emergency key thing, she used a laminator. She had a piece of paper that had a heartfelt saying on it and laminated the key to it.

Any tampering would ruin that slip of paper. I kept it in my wallet just in case. We have since moved on from emergency keys, but it was a nice no fuss way, and required no effort on her part. Which I think from reading your post, chastity is more important to you, (she just said no sex with her) she’s only helping you do chastity. She already knows how to not let you have sex with her lol!

I’m somewhat curious, did she gravitate to cuckoldry because of your feminine side or unrelated?

 

Sounds like she already has ideas as to when and where she will allow you to wear the cage. If she is not using you for penetrative sex, then why would she really care if you lock yourself up. You might offer yourself to her locked up, and see what she says. Then do some new things for her which demonstrate your focus and commitment to her. She very well may like seeing you locked and leave you that way given the situation with her new Bull. Then the temptation to relieve yourself will be at least slowed down. Hope all continues to go well.

 

Seriously, if you are Her loving dedicated cuck, I don't think being kept locked and chaste should be a really big deal. I don't think it's a lot to ask for at this point to be locked up, given She has moved to things well beyond your cock. Get the idea in Her Bull's head and I bet he'd love to see you locked up and chaste as well.
If he gets into it, you know She will quickly jump on board. Ask Her to discuss your potential lock up with him, and watch how quickly things might change.

 

These things need to be taken slowly. Pressing the matter rarely works.

Perhaps try wearing the cage when she is on a date and ‘forget’ to take it off.

If she asks why you are wearing it, tell her you get so excited / horny when she is with her bull and that you feel the need to lock yourself up - as you don’t think you could trust yourself to behave if you weren’t locked!

You could follow that with ‘I’ll take it off if you don’t like it’ or similar.

Take it slow, enjoy the journey and be careful what you wish for!

 

Hi @Mandyb

Indeed this could be risky. @Dufty 's blog 'Cucked at the Gym' might provide a cautionary tale (or a very exciting tale, depending on your perspective) https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/cucked-at-the-gym.16276/

It seems a bit odd that having you locked is a bit too much for your wife even though she is taking a bull.

I like @gymgenius idea

When she is preparing to go on a date ask to be locked up while she is on the date to reinforce the concept that her bull can have sex with her any way he wants, but you can't. Same with pleasing her orally - tell her you want to be locked up when you please her to reinforce the situation. So, in effect, you use the cage to support your wife having fun with her bull. Might be a way to get the ball rolling. But I don't know you or your wife, so I don't know if this will help. Just building on an idea.

And there are a number of cucks and cuckoldresses (is that the correct term??) on the mansion you might be able to chat with.

Good luck.

 

May be worth looking for something in stainless steel. Most people find then a lot more comfortable and easier to keep clean!

 

It is quite possible that your wife is enjoying the fact that she appears to have full control of you and your sex life all imposed by her will and she is confident that does not require the security of a device to ensure her piece of mind.

In that case she could be so pumped about the nature of her personal power and its control over you that is a far more significant factor than you have perhaps realised or imagined.

For her it is possible that you wearing a cage would be both weakness on her part and ptentially a source of pleasure for you that she would rather frustrate.

Of course I could have completely misunderstood her perception of the dynamic of your relationship.

But who knows perhaps that is one route the future of male chastity might progress along. A completely female led relationship with full dominance and yet with no device necessary whilst getting from him full compliance with self imposed abstinence . Possible...doubtful.. too extreme even.... but who knows?

 

Indeed, be careful what you wish for. You could end up locked 24/7 like and that's no fun! What a load of rubbish I talk, its absolutely BRILLIANT!

 

What indeed?
Swapping almost instant but gratification for near perpetual stimulation may be a big part of it.

A Quick orgasm V constantly being horny with infrequent (or no) DROP ... no contest for some of us.

 

I still take an O every chance I get!

 

Totally agree with this comment. In my opinion steel is superior for comfort, cleaning and appearance. Who knows, maybe OP's wife may see a solid steel device on him and get more on board with the idea.

 

facinating reading, i think as with many others it was the other way round for me, cuckolding came after chastity that came after BDSM/ FLR. I feel once your wife has that key, and the control she will love it! thanks for posting.

 

“She is now starting to hopefully enjoy my chastity” - that is precisely what I hope for for my own wife - I think last time she thought it was a bit of fun, perhaps me being weird - I introduced it to her - but now she is even adding extra days onto my ‘term’ and I don’t even get the new cage for another10 days! (I have been cage free for nearly 4 years) - I am quite sure she will take it more seriously this time round - so long as it is still fun for US and SHE enjoys it, it will be great...I hope!!

 

However each of us as different couples relate to chastity, I think that this is an important first step on our journey. Best wishes @Mandyb hope you and your wife work it out for your mutual benefit.