Female friend

Why don't the key holders here in the mansion make a room for female key holders and let it be invitation only.
Is there a room at the moment.

 

I know that there was in the past a secret room for women here, that Amanda campaigned to have set up - I dont know if it still exists as for various reasons -ahem- I've not been invited.

 

I asked the same question when I first joined the Mansion as I was keen to get my Wife to join and I knew she would prefer an area like this, and I was very firmly put in my place and told not to ask the question again. That was by a former moderator who left recently with a great deal of discussion over her departure.

 

Jas - I think her tongue was firmly in her cheek at that point.

If there isnt a female's only by invite room at CM, then I do think there should be. It wouldn't be too difficult, but we'd need some more active female moderators on board to make it workable, otherwise there'd need to be a male mods in there which is not quite right IMO.

 

I would love for there to be an all female room. I like being able to talk to like minded women and I find it hard sometimes in this environment. I'm new to this kh life, but I would love chatting and getting ideas from others without my boy being able to read about them.

 

Just start a conversation with anyone on CM .

Funny enough lots of problems with the running of that separate room . Lol
. Xx Wendy

 

There isn't at present. But it has been mooted in the Mods board.There are two schools of thought on it. Also all the other problems CM has recently had (and hopefully overcome) it's not been in the forefront. I'm sure there's the potential functionality.Maybe other members have a view on this one.


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There is another way. Create a chat room, and only invite women to it.

Goto Chat Now bottom right of your screen of on a 'proper' device, then just under Who's Online is the tab for chat rooms.
Once you're there you can start a private chatroom and invite whoever you want. Invite every single Female member and Mistress you can find.

[edit] Well I'll be flayed and sprinkled with salt - you can set up a password protected chat room. You dont need to invite anyone - just start the chat-room and set a password, then start a thread asking any female or Mistress to PM you for the password. If it takes off you've got your own female only chat room right there.

 

That is true. But the chat room doesn't quite have the same attributes as a separate room. And not everyone uses chat on a regular basis or even at all.

 

No that's true - in fact it's quite restrictive - but the benefit is that it's more immediate, and there is less likely to be catfights.

 

True too. I think that now the recent CM problems have been addressed and sorted it may be a good time to discuss new developments of a number of sorts. Maybe a new thread in a more appropriate forum? Else we're hijacking the OP and taking it on a tangent?

 

My only issue with that is that it would be easy for a man to sign up as a female, for there have to be a way either by using skype or Viber to verify that it is a female that owns that account, for as sure as I am a man, I know that men will try to get into this room in the mansion.
what do others think.

 

Amanda did suggest a private forum section for certain females. It is still there. It was meant to be a support feature for the many self locking male subbies and a place where we could discuss and help one or two of them. Unfortunately, as you know, Amanda has gone and Lady Fedora hasn't been on for an age, that just leaves 3 of us. I last commented in it on January and that's the last comment.
Perhaps it needs opening up to a few more ladies.

 

I didn't exactly know this, though I did know that Amanda had set something up, though not I thought exactly what was suggested here. But if it exists already and can be adapted............why not IMO?

There is a chastityforums site (not as good as CM but still OK) which has this and it works there quite well.

 

I think, on the whole, a guy who was really posing as a woman would be found out. After a while you start to see differences in the way men and women communicate. I cant really see anyone setting up and maintaining a whole persona just so they can gain access to a secret room. A lot of expenditure for little gain IMO

 

You are probably right,

 

The pit falls are rather too many for fun and whilst I think I get most who post with oestrogen or testosterone if you did not say a lot I do think guys could sneek it.
There is also the question of gender fluid and so on .
As I say you can always start a conversation with any number of people .

Xx Wendy

 

I suspect that is right. And access could be limited to members who have been on CM for some time and made a minimum suitable number of posts already, and allowed on application and approval only.

 

Before we get carried away, Can anyone comment on the technical difficulty's of achieving this?

*hint* @Administrator

PS - I was one of the self locking males this currently 3 member sub-forum meant to benefit, though they were never realised as far as I know

 

I specifically asked about a room like that when I joined but was told there wasn't one. I do think it's quite useful but actually I've been pleasantly surprised that I've NOT been overwhelmed with messages from guys as I was on a couple of other kink sites in the past. So kudos to you all.
Still, I'd be interested in one - I haven't used kik in forever tho. So something here would be more useful imo.

 

Maybe this is because part of being a chaste male is showing more respect to the Women in our lives? Many of us are also either in an FLR or are submissive to our female partners, so to me at least the idea of being so rude to a female member of the forum would go against the type of person I want to be.

 

Ok - I have started a women only chat-room here on CM. It's password protected and I'll give it out to people I sincerely believe to be women. Just ask via minichat.

I've done this as a few have suggested it would be useful, and to see how easy it is, and to keep it here on the best Chastity forum in town. If you'd like to use it feel free to ask me for the password. We need a modicum of vetting so you'll need to have a completed profile and at least 10 posts in the forum.

My involvement will really be limited to having created it, and to be available should anyone feel the need to call anything to the attention of a mod.