Help

Hi and welcome!!!

I used to wear a Birdlocked!

May I ask you to please elaborate on why you feel you can't get it on him correctly?

For instance, are you struggling with the base ring? Or with locking it? Or his fit in the tube?

If you could please provide a few details I'm sure we can give you all the help you need!

With the absolute kindest regards.

J.

 

My guess he is a bit big due to the situation and you touching his boy bits.

So try after he has cum and or lots of iced water either let everything dangle, at least to start off with , in the cold water adding more ice as needed oobviously there should not be much to dangle after a little while or lots cold towels .

There have been other methods on other threads about reducing excitement in boy bits involving pain . Some seem quite er exciting at least for the person in charge !!.

Good luck and enjoy CM we look forward to your contributions and photos of everything all neat and tidy .

Xx Wendy

 

Mechelle, welcome to the mansion.
Sorry to hear of your problem.
Where are you based?

 

Lol

Umm mm best if you stuff a pair of your used knickers in his mouth and then just tug placing the heels of you stelettoes on the inside of his thighs to get some purchase .

You probably could need some more ice !

Xx Wendy

 

@Wendygirl you are such a bad influence!!!! :spank:

That poor boy's gonna get the shock of his life!! Lol!

@Mechelle It sounds like the ring may be too small....? May I ask: what size did you order...? 40, 45 or 50 mm diameter...?

With the absolute kindest regards.

J.

 

I was trying to avoid that conclusion .

Is he a big boy ? If so definitely best to keep him locked up all for your self @Mechelle .


Xx Wendy

 

Haven't used a Birdlocked in years but from my memory, it can be rather difficult at first and especially for the first device.

First off, the Birdlocked can be a great device and feels very sensual to wear, but due to the fact that the base ring is attached to the cage, it isn't very practical if you plan on trying to put it him on yourself and it is kind of a pain in the butt to go through getting it back on after sex. The whole thing needs to come off for sex unless you don't mind feeling the cage in your groin along with his member.
Devices with a cage that detaches from the base ring work far better for these purposes as just the cage can be removed for sex and teasing. The base ring with it's locking pin can simply be rotated out of the way. Acts just like a cock ring and no more hassles getting it or the cage back on.

But anyway, here's a quick guide for putting the device on.

1) His excitement may cause him to get too aroused to work things in place so you may have to let him do it instead of you.
2) The base ring is much wider than most other devices so the scrotum needs to be as loose as possible. A warm soak helps.
3) A little lube on his scrotum and the device will help to get it on. It will never happen without it. A&D Ointment works best for this.
4) The best procedure for all solid ring devices is to pull any scrotum skin through you can and work one testicle through, then pull as more scrotum skin through as their will be more once one testicle is through, then work the other testicle through. This takes a lot of practice and also reduces the the pain of his testicles being wrestled through. Once the testicles are through, slip the penis through and work it into the cage with a little lube. He can then wash the inside of the cage with mild soap and water, using a Q-Tip if needed to remove the lube. Then dry with a Q-Tip also.
5 When the device is in place make sure to constantly lube the base ring at the bottom of the scrotum as chafing will occur. Also due to the width of the base ring, he is going to get a lot of pulling and stretching on his scrotum.

Wish you luck on your journey.

 

Nice write up