I think this post is long overdue. I have been on this site quite some time now. But never made a formal introduction. My Mistress/KH/Wife and I have been doing chastity on and off for the last 6 years. Regarding devices I went through all the usual issues people struggle with here with sizing, comfort, and ability for wear. I started out with cheap ball trap devices, and moved to custom metal. I eventually went the PA route since I could never sleep comfortably in my custom ball trap devices (Queens Keep/Steelheart). Even getting the right sized PA tubes was a challenge. I must have spent close to $3k in various devices to find the right fit. Currently I have been in Tube Jacket and now an Evotion Bijou. On the relationship side, my Mistress and I have struggled to make a FLR work with 2 little kids and balancing real-life issues that come with that. But we have been on a pretty good run over the past few months. So something seems to be working this time. I will post and comment more about that in the FLR forum. That's it for here. I just wanted to start out by saying "hello" (finally).
Welcome. We have six kids, the oldest is nine, and the youngest is 3 months. I definitely know what you mean. FLR does not work for us outside of the bedroom. And for us that is okay. Do what you have to do to make things work as best as you can.