Straightening up bedroom this evening and found our first dated contract for two days from now. It was dated october 15th but we started a little while before. Can't exactly say when with certainty. Few observations though. Contracts are a nice gesture at first but in general useless, just do what she says. I've went from getting off two to three times a week to maybe twice a month, three if I'm lucky and I don't mind it anymore. Rather starting to enjoy it actually. Piv has went way down and blow jobs are nonexistent, again I don't really mind. I'm in no position to give advice but if I did. It would be don't overwhelm your keyholder with horny man needs, empower her to be in control. It benefits everyone in end. She knows your in chasity don't tell her, and just go with it unless it's a hard boundary. She's stated this is permanent for us now and we're never going back so lastly the old be careful what you wish for.
Congrats, but Oct 15 to Feb 15 is 4 months. Even if it started a bit before, you're math is still off. I'd say contracts are useful for setting the intent and explaining the whys. They are a great way to get on the same page and discuss things before starting. Sure, once things are going forward, they don't carry a lot of weight. Kind of like a lease. Important before you rent the place, but once you move in, you rarely go back and read the lease.
I like that last part of "Be careful what you wish for!" Because I told myself a couple months back that I really wanted chastity-induced blue balls... Well, I got em now after 3 and half weeks without ejaculation (new personal record) and I'm starting to feel like I have a pair of water balloons between my thighs. Not that I'm complaining... I actually like it.
Well done and congrats to your Mistress and you both with many more wonderful days ahead. Thank you for sharing also taking me back to my first time all the feelings coursing through me back in the day when it was new.
Congratulations on your milestone! (Math, schmath) One little question: what is permanent? The cage in your life, or denial of orgasms? (For us, the cage in our lives. We're never going back. And as for denial or orgasms? Well, it's just working out to be permanent, one day at a time, 28 months so far.) Peace!