My journey to FLR marriage with husband locked in chastity

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    #451 Nathaniel Burgundy, Sep 13, 2021
    This is such a fascinating journal - thank you for posting! I have to admit I find the element of truly conquering him and imposing elements he doesn’t want to be captivating. It’s infinitely more interesting to me to see inside the mind of a woman who knowingly and systematically set about conquering and transforming her husband, than it is to read of the mor familiar tale of topping from the bottom. It reminded me of how lucky I am to have a woman who is also proactively kinky, although the nature of the relationship is very different, and it inspired me to create my own journal here.

    May I ask why you lost interest in PIV sex with him and find even the sight of him using his penis repellant? Or is that something that just happened for no apparent reason?
     
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    #452 lockmeup4life, Nov 7, 2021
    Does anyone think this is all fake?
     
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    #453 Shepherdsflock, Nov 7, 2021
    I do.
     
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    #454 madams-sissysub, Nov 7, 2021
    couldn’t agree with this more!
     
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    #455 Turma, Nov 8, 2021
    There's no need to beat around the bush. Strictness always helps me when I start spinning around, as my wife always says.
     
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    #456 SubSnuggler, Nov 8, 2021
    Interesting. It's definitely thought provoking. I lean more to 'real' than 'fake'. In fact I never really had any doubt about this tale until you said that. I respect your opinion after seeing you around for a few years and you are definitely a very practical, thoughtful, and intelligent contributor. Who knows? Either way it's a fun story.
     
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    #457 Headtrip, Nov 8, 2021
    I just don't think @MeanBitch could have written this all, and stayed so consistent with the progression, the ups and downs, without a lot of experience and a lot of strength. In which case I still find it a very good journal regardless. A little extreme? Perhaps. I think that is the point. But having a very strong dom wife who brought EMC into my life I can identify with many parts of this story and read it as real.
     
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    #458 Bronco, Nov 16, 2021
    After reading this hole blog makes me realize that chastity affects everyone differently and that everyone enjoys it so that’s what it’s all about. I find every story interesting. It’s really cool how ever one and every couple is sorta the same but still different. Just enjoying life .
     
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    #459 Suewiang, Dec 10, 2021
    Hope you get to update soon
    Take care suewiang
     
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    #460 MeanBitch, Jan 7, 2022
    Traditional sex with my husband was never particularly satisfying, but even if it were it would undermine our entire FLR dynamic if I permitted him to ever penetrate me again.

    To put it bluntly, I fuck him and he gets fucked by me, and that's the only way it can be given the nature of our relationship. Every hard thrust inside him reinforces that I am completely in control of him, and the burning in his ass that he feels for the rest of the night and the next day is a constant and important reminder of his position in our marriage.

    It would be terribly confusing for him if he was my bitch in life but he was also the sexual aggressor in bed. Logically he is assigned the passive, subordinate role in our sexual relationship in the same way that he occupies that role 24/7, and that consistency is vital. His sexual organs now are his tongue and his rectum, and he's accepted that.
     
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    #461 MeanBitch, Jan 7, 2022
    Thanks! Happy New Year to everyone.
     
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    #462 Arti_Rao, Jan 8, 2022
    Happy new year.
    Just wanted to know how often that happen you taking his ass bluntly or with care even
     
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    #463 mosthandysub, Jan 11, 2022
    MB....HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

    Thank you very much for taking the time and effort to share your journey. Reading this thread has certainly been very enlightening and enjoyable.

    At the moment...I have one question. You have done an awesome job describing your motivations and experiences to the folks on this website. While I understand your need for discretion, I wonder if you have ANY friends (or relatives) that are privy to your relationship besides the obvious demonstration of you being the dominant partner as you've described. Do you have friends who share similar experiences and with whom you've shared details of your relationship?

    Thanks again for your time and efforts! I look forward to continuing to follow your journey.
     
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    #464 rachel-servant, Mar 12, 2022
    Dear MeanBitch:
    If my Wife ever needs a lawyer, i want Her to hire You.
    Sincerely,
    rachel-servant
     
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    #465 SlaveBoy73, Mar 12, 2022

    And if you get hit by a bus tomorrow?

    Your husband will be defenceless.
     
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    #466 Lisa43, Mar 12, 2022
    The world needs more women like you to control some of the bad activities of men.
     
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    #467 MeanBitch, Mar 30, 2022
    It really depends on how I'm feeling and how late I'm working, I'll got through periods where I'm taking his ass almost every day but other times it might just be once or twice in a week. It's become very satisfying and I don't feel the need for extramarital sex any longer, so it's a good thing for my husband even though he doesn't love being pegged, especially when I'm in an aggressive mood, which is often.
     
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    #468 MeanBitch, Mar 30, 2022
    My adult daughter is fully aware of all aspects of my marriage, but she's the only one I've ever fully confided in. With friends and other family I don't hide the fact that I wear the pants in the family but I don't feel comfortable discussing the chastity or sexual aspect.
     
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    #469 MeanBitch, Mar 30, 2022
    Thanks, I appreciate that. I take my work seriously.
     
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    #470 MeanBitch, Mar 30, 2022
    I disagree about him being defenseless. To the contrary, I have provided my husband with tools that he can use of something were to happen to me.

    Before I imposed my rules and locked my husband in chastity, he was lazy, overweight, unmotivated and struggling to make his way. in this world. Under my leadership he has developed practical domestic skills which are valuable. I have pushed him to build his work ethic and discipline. He was an inadequate lover but now has been trained to please a woman with excellent oral skills. In many ways he was defenseless but now has become a useful man. So I don't agree that he is defenseless in the way that you meant. In any case, if something were to happen to him I have made provisions so that he could move on with his life. I may be harsh but I care a lot about him.
     
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    #471 MeanBitch, Mar 30, 2022
    Thanks.
     
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    #472 613CuckLock, Mar 30, 2022
    Yep.
     
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    #473 SlaveBoy73, Mar 30, 2022
    I'm glad you have thought of that contingency
     
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    #474 Guest 2271, Mar 30, 2022
    You are an amazing strong woman.
     
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    #475 ChasteHubby2015, Mar 30, 2022
    I’m curious as to how your daughter feels about this, is she supportive? Has she developed an interest in FLR and chastity as a result of learning about it from you? Does your husband know that she’s aware and does that cause him any embarrassment whenever she’s around?
     
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