Wife wants to know how can we make it either difficult or impossible to for me to get hard. We don't want to do anything that would mess up my body too much just make it hard for me to get hard or impossible. So we can have some humiliation play when I am unlocked.
I actually posted a little about this in your threas: Edging. What I didn’t mention was the aftermath. The guy went silent on me for about a month, and then finally responded saying that the effects of his abrupt 2-week emersion into tease, denial, and edging had indeed broken his dick. Indeed. I think it ultimately took about a season for his genitalia to trust him again enough to respond to arousal and try for orgasm. I originally wanted to go for, say, a few days; but this is the sort of guy who does Tough Mudder every other year: he’s either on or he’s off. Starting with two weeks of on lead to three months of being involuntarily off. Might be something to explore if you’re looking to break yours. On the good side, I learned a lesson about blindly trusting play-starved bottoms with their estimates of how much they can take.
I would say hypnosis. Can be really effective, but if done wrong it is the very definition of "messing around"... As for herbs: Bad Idea if you do not want to mess around ! The ony one working would affect your hormones and once they are off it it of no interest if you did it with herbs or direct hormone treatments. There are often lasting effects that are hard to come by.
Hey, if it didn’t result in any ER visit that I know of, I feel that it can be chalked up to “educational”.
The number 1 erection / arousal killer is stress, usually about job stuff or finances. Figure out a way to integrate that into play and it should do the trick. That's interesting as it has quite the exact opposite effect for me, and tease/denial/edgings are the regular around here. From my perspective, the edging itself does need to be pleasurable (a true edging where it's really almost an orgasm), come in multiples (the first edging is okay, but the second one and third one...), and needs some positive reinforcement at the end (i.e. The edging pleased Her and I did a good job).
Use of finasterid like Proscar 5 mg (or more) per day will do so in about 3 months in most cases. Please be careful, it is not always reversible. A 'better' way is permanent and long term chastity in a small cage including most likely penis shrinkage and erectil disfunction due to missing night time erections that keep the erectil tissue trained. This is then at least a temporary break of your dick
If you want to not get hard like a man does then take hormone pills cos it wont go like a stick no more then. my willy never goes like a stick now but it still goes a little bit bigger when Mistress lets it. but rember that if you do then other things happen as well.
My wife/KH does not want to break my dick, she just want total control. This is something we have agreed on and as I got older and need medication to get it hard our model is different then most. I still have strong urges and her keeping me locked let’s her remain in control. When she wants to torment me or use me, she then has me take the little blue pill. When I remain locked, not only is my desire still very strong during the tease and deny, but I also experience my erection attempt against my metal cage. For those times she lets me out for PIV, my desire plus erection please her.