I am away from my Keyholder Wife for the weekend. Last night, while we were cuddling, we talked about taking our FLR to the "next level" and what that might look like. I'm already caged nearly all the time, do all the household chores and have my orgasms tightly controlled, so some of the obvious ones are out. She asked what that next level might be, so i brainstormed some ideas: * She could up the physical punishments when i fail on a task or when She desires, * She could end PIV for me for an extended time, maybe all year, * She could fully out me to a kink- positive Friend of Hers who already knows the gist of our FLR but is missing some key details, * Start the process of cuckolding me with another man or woman, * She could join the forum and become verified to connect with other Dommes, or * She could do multiple of these and/or think of something different. I expect to be back Sunday and look forward to hearing which of these She has selected, if any. asa
Yes, that's for sure. I am so fortunate that She's entertained by my submission and gets excited at my denial. I can't wait to see where She decides to take us next. asa
* She could join the forum and become verified to connect with other Dommes This might be a good idea. She might get some ideas you hadn't thought of
Maybe you need to start eating your releases for her. My wife loves to watch as I lap up my load. Me, not so much!! LOL Have fun. That's what this is all about.
I'll be honest, I don't think it works like this. You don't decide in advance we'll do this or that. It just happens organically. Let it develop. Good luck
Has she taken full control of your marriage? Things like making all the decisions. Although she may listen to your input, it is her choice as to what is done. Financially, does she control all the money? Put you on an allowance and require to explain all purchases or get them approved beforehand. Does she display your obedience in public? Like making you drive her, with her in the back seat. You open her car door at all times. You must open and hold doors open for her. She may require you to walk a step or two behind you. If she goes shopping, you carry not only her purchases, but her purse as well. Small steps like this can reinforce how she see herself and remind you that you are there to serve her.
I appreciate your honest feedback, @LesterBallard and can see your point. Some things we do have started more organically, like me opening doors for Her and doing the driving. We're using this discussion to drive our forward. The brainstorming was a way of holding up different options and seeing if She liked them or not, especially because several of them require effort on Her part. asa
These are good ideas, friends. Some of them, like driving and consuming (or at least offering to) i do, but there are several items you mention that i will pass along to my Keyholder Wife. I appreciate your input. asa