Your children and you.

my kids are in there 30"s now
we have joked with 1 daughter about sex toys one night when she lived with us.(she does have some kink like me) she said to not use her cuffs lol
a few weeks ago she was in the bedroom chatting with the wife and my cb6000s was on the night stand. did she see it just not sure

 

1. don't leave it sitting out where your kids can see it
2. it should be on you

 

Our kids do not know. But I feel that our 16 year old boy would benefit if he understood more about it. I just don't intend to go anywhere near telling him. But for many of us I suppose, on this site, we've benefitted from it and didn't learn about it until later in life. I commented on some other post about how our culture is screwing up kids. This whole sexualized culture where you're a looser if your not getting laid by every girl in the class is so damaging. Call me old school, but it seems so much healthier to grow up, stay a virgin till married, and marry the girl next door or the daughter of family friends, and to have the support of both families throughout life would just be a more comfortable way of living.

 

I hope you've started a healthy dialogue about sexuality at least. Many don't. If not, don't beat yourself up. It's not top late to start.

 

Kids have no involvement !

 

Our children are grown, out of the house, and live out west. They have no idea of our chastity or our previous BDSM or swinging lifestyles.