You are locked, but are you a cuckold? Would you like to be?

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    #1 lovetolick, May 18, 2023
    New here and curious about this topic. My answer is no, and yes. What are the feelings of others.
     
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    #2 herluckyboi, May 18, 2023
    No and no
     
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    #3 Andylocked, May 18, 2023
    Love the fantasy - but think that is where it should stay!
     
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    #4 Ganondorf, May 18, 2023
    No and no. Leave it to a fantasy.
     
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    #5 Jay Sub, May 18, 2023
    Locked? Yes
    Cuckold? No
    Want to? NO!
     
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    #6 Tamed Male, May 18, 2023
    No and no.

    There is no way it would have felt safe for me to go as deep into D/s with my wife as we did if we weren’t focused on each other.
     
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    #7 JaySaysYes, May 18, 2023
    No, and no, times 1,000
     
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    #8 NsToy, May 18, 2023
    Nope and never.
     
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    #9 littleguy3, May 18, 2023
    No and HELL NO!! :cool:
     
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    #10 NowIveDoneIt, May 18, 2023
    Nope. But there is a section for that if you are into it...
     
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    #11 true42, May 18, 2023
    No, and no. And fortunately, she has no interest in it either. But I'd accept her decision on the topic, either way; glad I don't have to worry about it, though.
     
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    #12 Chastebank, May 18, 2023
    Locked, nope and not over my dead body!
     
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    #13 SubDee, May 18, 2023
    Yes always locked, never cucked.
    Really really want to be a cuck though.
     
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    #14 Vinnyfl, May 18, 2023
    I shared my wife once. She hated it and I hated it. She did not get any sexual pleasure and I di not get aroused watching her. My wife was bruised and sort from the guy trying to get her to orgasm which she never came close to. Not all women are comfortable with a new guy the first time plus my wife needs an emotional connection to her sex partners. Just not the same with strangers and it did not turn me on.

    I once watched a girlfriend get gang banged by three guys and it did nothing to arouse me. I do not get aroused watching my sex partners have sex. My wife hated cuckolding me so much that she swore off guys except me. She started to invite her girlfriends to join us in bed and one became a regular in our family. I do like to watch my wife with women but not men. My wife prefers sex with women, not men so cuckolding is not our thing,

    However, I cuckolded one of my wife's girlfriend's husband for 25 years. His wife wanted him to watch rather than just get a phone call after she was done with me so she brought him over. He grew uncomfortable and so she took him home and came back alone the next day. Funny that I never thought about her husband during sex with her. She was mine when she was with me. I never thought much of her husband. Not an alpha male at all although in his mind he was but physically he was sickly and thin. His first wife left him for one of her lovers.

    I look at it this way. I do not like others to drive my car or use my stuff so why would I value my wife less than my car? I am OK with a swap but too alpha to just let a guy have sex with my wife and not get to play with his wife. Just does not sit right with my alpha mind.
     
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    #15 Queens servant73, May 18, 2023
    No and no, we both played with others, together, in the past. Fantasy many times is better than reality, and that’s where the cuckhold stuff will stay for us
     
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    #16 The Queens consort, May 19, 2023
    She locks me from time to time. We share our cuckold fantasy. But the thought of actually doing it scares us both.
     
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    #17 FLRAdvocate, May 19, 2023
    Locked? Yes.

    Cuckold? Yes. So much so that I literally have not even had my penis inside a GF of 6 years.
     
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    #18 lovetolick, May 19, 2023
    Thank you for your replies. vinnyfl, I am sorry your experience turned out to be so disappointing. Reality can sometimes deflate our fantasies. I am certain, though, that many others have experienced a much better
    outcome with additional sex partners.
    My desire for my wife to take a lover began with my acceptance of the fact that I never had a say in the matter anyway, even before chastity. I am not a cuckold because my wife did not choose to make me one, or perhaps she did and I don't know about it. In any case, when I gave her the keys to my cage, I gave her control of my cock (now her cock), and control of any and all sex acts she might imagine for me and for her. I simply acknowledge her right to satisfy all her desires and vow my support of her doing so. It is not for me to tell her to fuck other men, or women, but I believe I would like it if she did.
    Sometimes when I am servicing her with a rabbit or a wand, as she is close to climax, she takes the toy away from me so she can finish herself without bothering to give instructions, leaving me to watch as she reaches that final moment of ecstasy. I love it, and can't help but imagine the intensity of it if a live body was driving it.
    Also, I believe the experience of watching her display her generous spirit by enthusiastically sucking a cock, or licking a pussy, would give me joy beyond description, even though I know I have forfeited any opportunity to reach a climax myself because I have abandoned release in favor of the exquisite torment of perpetual arousal. My biggest disappointment would be not being allowed to watch, but, of course I have no control of that either.
    If this fantasy never happens, one thing is real, I still have the pleasure of permanent service to my KH.
     
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    #19 FruttiDiMare, May 19, 2023
    Locked yea, no and not at all into cuckolding. Hard limits set there.
     
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    #20 Hey1234, May 19, 2023
    No and more no.
     
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    #21 TangoSub, May 19, 2023
    pretty much always locked. Mistress/wife hasnt shown any interest..which makes me happy. We have always found ways to ensure her desires and any fantasies are fulfilled without needing others.
     
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    #22 Disciplined Boyfriend, May 19, 2023
    Nope. We are very private in that respect. I am hers and she is mine. If she wants sex she will unlock me, that is her choice. When she doesn't (that's the norm) I stay locked.

    In a fantasy, no.

    A
     
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    #23 lovetolick, May 19, 2023
    I have to admit my surprise by the number of no's here, believing as I do that my chastity is my spouses complete sexual liberation and path to exploration. I don't think I have heard from any spouses/keyholders. I wonder if they feel the same as their subs without saying it? Anyway, I respect all your choices and thank you for your input.
     
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    #24 tomf_22033, May 19, 2023
    I'm not currently locked as I'm working on my Prince Albert for chastity. The goal is to go up one more size before going back into chastity.

    I'm a cuckold but not the kink fetish definition. More of the Stag/Vixen definition but that's not totally accurate either.

    I guess you can say I love having partners who have sex with others. And I like it when I can be included. Of course it all depends on the relationship. But overall I enjoy making my partner(s) happy.
     
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    #25 Maddie Mae, May 19, 2023
    Yes PK is locked and yes he is my cuckold. Our relationship just sort developed this way without him saying he wanted to be a cuckold, but his actions confirmed his desires. My role as his Keyholder developed and blossomed into a position with many benefits that I grew to enjoy.
     
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