You are locked, but are you a cuckold? Would you like to be?

You are surprised by the number of people who don't have a relationship where someone else fucks their wife? Nothing against it but it is a very small percentage of the kink community. Like I said before- you would be better off discussing in the cuckold forum.

 

Is there a 'coward cuckold' option where your wife takes a female lover, not a male one?

 

Why is that considered being a "coward cuckold"? This is the first time I have ever heard of the term.

 

Yes and Yes for many years. Also, there is a cuckold specific forum that might be better for such topics.

 

The same question asked within the specific forum would not have the same results, which is that chastity and cuckolding are not connected in many peoples minds. The nays are quite firm in their answers, even those who admit that they have fantasized about it, but think it best left that way.

 

So men can compete over who is the world's best cuckolded cuckold?

 

Huh?

 

coward was probably the wrong word to use. the easy option, maybe!
lots of men probably have that fantasy, but it's a lot easier for a man to digest the reality of it than of another man being the third party.

 

Although we don't consider cuckolding, I tend to agree on that.

 

Mistress and I agree that having any third person in our relationship sexually is not going to happen. That said, I am happily caged and firmly submit in our FLR.

 

Who came up with that term? I've never heard it.

And my ex also had a female lover. So I'm not sure what to say as I thought it was cool that she explored her sexuality and found someone to try new things with. In her case, she had only perviously only done the teenage/college/club kissing and playing stuff. It was only after she got into the lifestyle did she feel comfortable to actually have sex with another woman. Then an actual relationship.

By this time, I had matured enough so I was fine with it as we knew what we both needed and how to manage. It was a lot of fun. Unfortunately I never got to see them together as I would have loved to have watched. But neither was interested in that.

 

don't mind the term, it's just something that came out as i was typing.
it was a play on that old joke about the bloke who wants a threesome, and is dismayed when his gf assumes it'll be mmf rather tham mff.

 

What fantasy? Their wife having a female lover?

I'm not so sure that it would be easier for some men to accept being replaced by a woman. Not only is the cuckold's penis unsatisfactory and useless, a woman can satisfy his wife's sexual desires better and with more intimacy.

 

i'd say for the considerable majority of men, given a choice, it'd be a woman.

 

Agree on what?

 

No and No for me. I was surprised how many others said the same. If anything my fantasy would be for my wife and another attractive female to have some sort of relationship where I am chaste and not always the one pleasing them etc. But even that I want to remain FANTASY and Don't want to really happen.

 

That it does not matter whether the third person in a cuckold situation has a penis or not.

 

A woman cuckolding them? We need to agree to disagree.

From our own experiences, PK would much rather be cucked by a male. His chances of me allowing him to participate in some sort of shape or form are better than if I'm playing with a another girl.

 

No and no.

I'm open to the possibility of us having sexual experiences with others, but if we ever did, I'd like to do that in a way that includes everyone and makes everyone feel good.

Cuckolding just doesn't tick that box for me.

 

He would prefer cuckolding by a male. But may I asume, that you are making he desicion?

 

You are correct.

This is a female empowered, FLR web site still? Yes/No?
Why would a chastised male have a choice?

 

Yes I’m lock but I’m not a cuckold. I’ve shared my fantasy with my wife and we have played with the fantasy a few times but neither of us have a desire to take it beyond fantasy. For myself I think I more love the kink aspect and my potential role with humiliation and cleanup etc… versus actually wanting to watch my wife fuck another man. In my head I love the idea of her having incredible pleasure and sex with a well endowed faceless bull who knows what he’s doing, I’ve thought about it many times. Ultimately I don’t know that I could handle it.

 

I (we) are not at this point of experience (yet?)
But the way you are publishing here, seems to be a very satisfying way for both of yours. I am impressed.

 

because it's still a consensual arrangement.

 

Agreed. If the wife/GF is being with another woman, that's not cuckolding (in its historical or current understanding). The idea of cuckolding has nothing to do with whether a man's penis is locked up or "useless" in any way, but rather it is the fact she's cheating on her husband with another man. That's what it has meant throughout history. Locking a man in chastity *can* be an adjunct to cuckoldry, but doesn't have to be. Those two are separate and discrete concepts.