My wife and I formally entered into a chastity based FLR a few months ago. She started making sure I was locked soon after that. She said she liked the control. She let me out or sex a couple of times about every week or 12 days. In October I was uncaged once in the middle of the month for sex then immediately re-caged. I was uncaged for a few days while we were on vacation due to logistics (frequent flying, small ships cabin with our son, etc.) then immediately back in the cage when we got back on Nov 2. We had a pretty severe argument right after we got back and she hasn't even mentioned letting me out since then. I just asked her if she was going to set some sort of record for me being locked up. She said "Yes, until the end of the year. You weren't very nice to me.". Gulp! So I guess I'm in until 2020! Well, this *is* what I agreed to. (I do get out to go swimming with my son at the Y, and a few minutes a day to clean and shave, to readjust if necessary, etc. but in general I'm locked 24/7.)
I never feel more foolish and stupid than when we have one our very infrequent arguments and I'm locked up. I guess there is psychology behind it where I feel emasculated and embarrassed but chastity has never come up when she's mad.