Wife locking me while she’s on her work trip

I'm excited for you both. Sounds like a nice step for her, to take more control. If it was me, I would focus on cleaning and taking care of her home while she is gone. Show her that the rewards of keeping you under lock and key can be very positive.

 

Three days? You got this. Easey peasey

 

Sounds like fun. My wife’s doing the same thing for an upcoming trip away. She’s going to secure the key in a safe. I’m already in chastity but she wants me in my tight little Contender so I can’t get hard at all while she’s gone. Her idea.

 

Loved it when that happened for the first time-her away me locked-fantastic feeling-great sign of chastity progress

 

Find ways to show your appreciation of Her exercising Her control through cleaning, doing tasks on Her "honey-do" list if you have one, and generally being of service. Make it so that She is as surprised and pleased this time as She was disappointed when you gave yourself that ruined. Balance the scales, so to speak.

While working, think of what it feels like and what it might be like to be locked for longer periods of time. When She returns, discuss this from both points of view to see if longer (and longer?) periods in the device work dier Y/you both.

Just some ideas...

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Three days will be a walk in the park, I’m sure you will do it with ease.

 

It is scary the first time, but you can do it! Remember, you're doing it for her.

 

Quick story for you.

My wife and I have played with longer term lockups right from the beginning, and quickly introduced the idea of me wearing a strapon harness to pleasure her. She would occfeel sorry for me and would let me out for some play or intercourse.

At some point, maybe 10 years ago, her work needed to send her to Bangalore for an entire month. She locked me in an hour before her car picked her up. She sealed my emergency key in tamper evident tape (she had brought some from work, having planned to do so).

When I picked her up a month later, we had some hot steamy strapon sex, after which she said that she was too tired to unlock me.

The next day, we had family over to visit. That night once again, hot steamy dildo sex. Afterwards, she said that she "wasn't ready" to unlock me.

The next morning, we had a little more hot dildo sex, during which she told me that something had clicked for her being away, and that she decided she didn't want to unlock me, not for a long long time. She hoped I would understand, but she really liked the idea of me being endlessly frustrated.

I stayed locked for the next 6 months straight, until the cage broke during some hot, steamy strapon sex.

 

Stay strong. You can do it.

 

I'm always locked when Mistress is gone. It used to be that, whenever She was going away for mores than a few days, She would milk me in advance to make me "docile". But now, She has Her Sister come over to check on me and to unlock me for cleaning.

 

Besides "sister" knowing and assisting...seem like a pretty good system.

 

Actually, the whole Sister thing was something I dreaded at first ( and was afraid of Her big mouth), but it has worked out pretty well. But, in all respects, Mistress remains in control and Sistress is just my KH in Her absence.

 

Seems perfectly normal to me!

 

You will be fine enjoy it.... but for some reason even although I have been locked without orgasm for months it always feels really quite humiliating when you are caged and the KH is gone and your at home and can't do anything about it!

 

I’m about to make a 30 day trip and my KH said she will ensure that I lock as soon as I get there and unlock right before I leave. Gonna be a long trip.

 

have good nights
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You are a lucky fellow. I envy you!

 

Due to the humiliation of being milked as well as the lack of orgasms, I used to dread being milked. Now, having adjusted, I closely watch Mistress's calendar in anticipation of Her upcoming travels.

 

Could you give us more detail about her sister being the alternate KH?

 

I quite like the sister part.

 

My wife loves leaving me locked when she goes on trips with her friends or takes the kids on a trip and I'm home all alone, whether it's a couple days or a week or more. She frequently calls or texts to tease me about my "predicament."

 

Mistress is helping Her sister to become more dominant and teaching her about our FLR. It began several months ago when Mistress told Her sister all about my chastity, feminine side and how well our FLR is working for us. Since then, each time Mistress goes out of town, we have a little 3 way "meeting" in advance where Mistress explains, in detail, what She wants done and how I am to be treated.

We had a "cleaning practice session" to familiarize "Sistress" with the process. Having known Sistress for 30+ years, that was a little humiliating for me and fun for Her. Since then, Mistress has gone on several trips and Sistress has stopped by to look in on me and go thru my cleansing process (and to torment me) - all under the direction of Mistress. Mistress and Sistress have a text and phone dialogue about this - to which I am not invited.

Sistress is now working on Her husband to have him wear a cage on a limited basis using the "Carrot & stick" reward system. Little does he know what lies in his future!

 

I'm usually not gone for more than a week, but it's automatic lock-up when I have to travel. He complains, but I tell him if he wasn't such a disobedient little boy, we wouldn't have to do this.

If he has to take it off for the job, he has the tools to get it off. He's required to let me know right away, though.

He has had to take it off a couple of times. He also knows if he has to take it off, I will check his computer when I get back. He doesn't delete his history, so, if he's been disobedient, I know. He gets a Disciplinary Session for it. In fact, he's so honest all I have to do is ask him and he'll tell me the truth. He won't volunteer it, but, if I ask, he will admit to any disobedience.

When he admits to it, I ask him if he knows he's still going to be spanked. He says he knows, but, he's not going to be dishonest with me.

He told me in the beginning that he's not the kind of guy to volunteer information, but, will be truthful if asked. Of course, he let me know about his habits he thought might bother me early on.