I am in a wife led marriage. I am on honor system chastity. My wife is fairly vanilla. She expects obedience. She wants to control the marriage and me. I do all the housecleaning. She controls the finances. She participates in a few of my kinks. I am here to meet other's in a wife led marriage.
Hi Jack, welcome My Wife and I go through periods of agreed female led behaviour and submission were I'm expected to obey. However, the more I read here and the more I think about it our vanilla periods (no kink) may be more female led than I had realised... not sure if that's just a loving relationship or if women are just plain sneaky!