Why I have turned to look into chastity again

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    Introduction.
    All too long have I been a slave of getting relief by frequent orgasms by masturbation. (Very high sexdrive, lot’s of kink’s), masturbated several times a day, it has become a burden for me. Too much attention on relief which keeps me too focused on my next relief. Hence, I believe submitting myself to be caged in a chastity might be my best option (self locking). Since I assume that will effectively hinder any stimuli to my penis.

    Hence reason for wearing a chastity is not to become / stay constantly aroused i.e. horny actually quite the opposite I want to forget my penis due to it being unavailable.


    How to counter any arousal

    While being self-locked in a chastity I recon it won’t remove the arousal, hence I’m looking for ways to counter the arousal or how to remove it without having an orgasm. I read that milking the prostate can be done without it being through orgasm’s, and apparently should be an effective way.

    Milking and how to?
    I wonder if milking the prostate would be effective in keeping things at bay i.e. minimize any arousal? And how often a milking should happen. Milking for me would only serve the purpose to stay on course and eventually become more accustomed to be more or less permanent chastitied.

    Toys to passively milk, if any?
    Next, what would be the most effective milking toy operated my oneself to use for milking, I’ve read about the njoy wand, but that requires time and actively operation?

    The optimal way for me, would be having some sort of a discreet yet effective hands free discreete P-spot massager inserted which will gently but effectively milk me while I for instance walk the dog, do grocery shopping and such. Not something I would do everyday, but when I feel tension start to build up, then insert the P-spot massager and get it over with, and carry on with every day life.
     
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    I think this is not the solution for you. You are a masturbator. Your whole post seeks essentially an alternative way to masturbate. Wear a plug to keep your prostate aroused? Really? So you need to masturbate and have anal orgasms? You apparently don't have a keyholder, so you need a more inescapable solution, even if it takes longer. Consider getting a piercing and after it heals a good strong device. Then lock up your keys.
     
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    Chastity is my way of dealing with excessive masturbation (aren't we all that especially when males?)
    No my SO is not part of this, yet. She may be later on, in the past she has been part of this lifestyle. But due to various reasons, health etc. she lost interest all together. However even back then there were no other fetishes involved.

    But going back, my post was about NOT to masturbate!
    In regard to milking the prostate, as I wrote, not something to do all the time, but a tool to get rid of fluid building up in prostate so your focus will be other things than having sex.

    You and I are not in the same situation, I'm not looking for a cuckold / slave lifestyle, but a life in chastity to control my own sexuality. Where wearing a chastity on long term basis shall be seen as such aka. a preventing tool i.e. not a plaything like you to get off on a kinky way. (Read your profile).
     
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    I an adicted to porn and masturbation and i am trying to not be that, i failed all of the 4 or 5 months of no fap i tried but i touch much less and watch porn less time and not every day, you need to go step by step, a cage will not make anything, try your best and keep pushing

    I can talk that i am more or less clean, i touch my self a lot less and dont see much porn, if i had to put numbers i touch once every 15 days and i see an hour of girls weekly, the problem now is that i cant get as harder as i used to do, i expect that once i recover more it will go away and i can get erect as i used to
     
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    currently I have gone >5 days without. yet I still get aroused.
    Chastity etc. what intrigues me in that regard, is that if you manage to put the key somewhere where it's "safe" and not easy to get. you are "forced" to accept the situation meaning no quickie and such. That of course intrigues me, the "no option" way.

    Anyway I'll figure out :)
     
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    Yes, that is the point, learning to live with the situation, including the undelivered prostate pressure.
     
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    unrelieved
     
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    a prostate stimulation will only occur if it becomes too unbearable. And will serve only as a milking, nothing more. Sexual relief through penile stimulation is supposed to be a distant memory only. From now on my goal is that only through anal stimulation can there be any relief.
    Secondary goal and which is why I chose the small cages is shrinkage. Due to be also being in diapers permanently.
     
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