Introduction. All too long have I been a slave of getting relief by frequent orgasms by masturbation. (Very high sexdrive, lot’s of kink’s), masturbated several times a day, it has become a burden for me. Too much attention on relief which keeps me too focused on my next relief. Hence, I believe submitting myself to be caged in a chastity might be my best option (self locking). Since I assume that will effectively hinder any stimuli to my penis. Hence reason for wearing a chastity is not to become / stay constantly aroused i.e. horny actually quite the opposite I want to forget my penis due to it being unavailable. How to counter any arousal While being self-locked in a chastity I recon it won’t remove the arousal, hence I’m looking for ways to counter the arousal or how to remove it without having an orgasm. I read that milking the prostate can be done without it being through orgasm’s, and apparently should be an effective way. Milking and how to? I wonder if milking the prostate would be effective in keeping things at bay i.e. minimize any arousal? And how often a milking should happen. Milking for me would only serve the purpose to stay on course and eventually become more accustomed to be more or less permanent chastitied. Toys to passively milk, if any? Next, what would be the most effective milking toy operated my oneself to use for milking, I’ve read about the njoy wand, but that requires time and actively operation? The optimal way for me, would be having some sort of a discreet yet effective hands free discreete P-spot massager inserted which will gently but effectively milk me while I for instance walk the dog, do grocery shopping and such. Not something I would do everyday, but when I feel tension start to build up, then insert the P-spot massager and get it over with, and carry on with every day life.