Which is most frustrating?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by Locked Unloaded, Oct 20, 2021.

?

Which is the most frustrating feeling in chastity?

  1. A raging erection attempt

    21 vote(s)
    41.2%
  2. When your mind wants to be horny but your body is having none of it

    28 vote(s)
    54.9%
  3. What? I don't understand/feel the difference

    2 vote(s)
    3.9%
Random Thread
  1. Locked Unloaded
    Offline

    Joined:
    Jun 4, 2020
    Messages:
    15
    Likes Received:
    22
    Trophy Points:
    13
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    London, UK
    Local Time:
    12:05 AM
    Just looking for some feedback to see if what I feel is shared or whether I'm just an odd one out o_O

    My level of horniness varies unpredictably during an extended lock-up but when I do get the urges they seem to fall into one of two categories:
    1. Physical - This is when my body is fully on-board with the chastity and denial. My cock is straining in the cage and the wonderful deep tingles are in full force
    2. Mental - My mind is willing but the body is sulking. I want to be aroused but my body is having none of it. The best I can get is semi-hard in the cage and no tingles.
    Personally, number 2 is the most frustrating for me. At least with the first category I am getting some physical feedback but the second just leaves me helpless - "Nope, not today. Nada. Zip. Hopefully you'll feel different tomorrow. But for now all you can do is wait"

    Of course, there is the third option which is "You are an oddball. I don't get this nor understand what you are describing". An equally valid choice in the poll :)

    Let me know what you think, please.
     
  2. MissyB
    Offline

    MissyB Active member

    Joined:
    Mar 16, 2019
    Messages:
    5,864
    Likes Received:
    8,870
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Occupation:
    maid, (I wish)
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Tennessee hills
    Local Time:
    7:05 PM
    I find my physical reactions are either from some sort of mental stimulation, like talking to a Dominant or seeing a searing sexual video (e.g., the one where wife is paddling husband) or are tied to night time erections. Both are in a way pleasing, not frustrating, as they are the most concrete expression of my sexual desires. On the other hand, mentally i'm aware of my caged condition a majority of the time i'm awake. Even if occupied with chores or other activities, the knowledge that i no longer control my own sexual needs is there. But that is something i realize is necessary if i am to serve as a submissive.
     
    Queens kept, Rectrix and Andy80 like this.
  3. madams-sissysub
    Offline

    Joined:
    Apr 30, 2009
    Messages:
    5,847
    Likes Received:
    3,384
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    nurse
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    uk (west mids)
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    12:05 AM
    I agree! I find mental stimulation to be the biggest turn on you can get. My madam can just say don’t it to me and I am trying to get harder than ever!
     
  4. LockedGreg
    Offline

    LockedGreg Active member

    Joined:
    Jun 29, 2018
    Messages:
    121
    Likes Received:
    145
    Trophy Points:
    53
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    7:05 PM
    I kind of like number 1, actually. Even the ball-pulling.
     
  5. Xileh
    Offline

    Xileh Happily Serving

    Joined:
    Jun 4, 2018
    Messages:
    790
    Likes Received:
    1,632
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    4:05 PM
    2 always leads to 1. My body hasn’t gotten the memo.
     
  6. LesterBallard
    Offline

    LesterBallard Active member

    Joined:
    Oct 2, 2016
    Messages:
    8,954
    Likes Received:
    3,740
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Management
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    United Kingdom
    Local Time:
    12:05 AM
    The mental tension is everything
     
  7. Andy80
    Offline

    Andy80 Member

    Joined:
    Aug 3, 2016
    Messages:
    171
    Likes Received:
    226
    Trophy Points:
    43
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    United Kingdom
    Local Time:
    12:05 AM
    I voted for answer 1, but for me the most frustrating is when the urge for an orgasm is at its peak. Usually that is accompanied with a raging erection but not always - sometimes I am only semi-hard. Generally though I find physical and mental tensions often occur simultaneously.

    The absolutely most frustrating times - though of course the most wonderful too - are during prolonged teasing play with my Mistress! :)
     
  8. starflyer
    Offline

    starflyer Junior Member

    Joined:
    Mar 12, 2010
    Messages:
    1,055
    Likes Received:
    654
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    UK
    Local Time:
    12:05 AM
    i find it frustrating when i have an erection in my cage, but am unable to do anything about it even though i want to get my cock out and masturbate i cant, but also when my wife is messing with my head constantly telling me that even though my cock still gets hard there's no way its ever going in her pussy again, another frustration but i find it highly erotic.
     
  9. Queens kept
    Offline

    Queens kept Active member

    Joined:
    Feb 1, 2020
    Messages:
    78
    Likes Received:
    266
    Trophy Points:
    53
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Machinist
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Minneapolis, MN
    Local Time:
    6:05 PM
    Ditto : )
     
  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice